I see a lot of young Chinese girls working at bubble tea places I wish I could enter into these sorts of arrangements with.
I have a fuck buddy. I don't pay her though, I just pay for dinner or movies then go back to her place when her son's at her ex's for the weekend.
Care to share another story? This thread was so epic and funny http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.ph...g-a-single-mum
Better than Netflix.
Not much to the story, I've known her for over 2 years and would see her every month or two. She's got a good body and C cup at least face is so so, but her nipples are very big and suckable. Last time I saw her it took me an hour to get across the line the 2nd time that I didn't know I was scrapping the skin off my knee against the couches metal frame until I was done. She was a trooper though, we were both exhausted afterwards.
I can see the down sides of these paid buddy arrangements
I prefer to keep the two things separate
Punting means I can enjoy sex pretty much at any time, with a beautiful woman, in nice surroundings
Dating I can enjoy the chemistry with the lady, and not expect to pay her apart from our meals together, and unprotected sex if we are both STI negative on recent tests
To pay someone to be my pseudo girlfriend just doesnt make sense to me.
There is no way I can know if I am just one of many people being used in this way, and unprotected sex in this setting isnt worth it
Let me give you an analogy.
Punting is like take out --> The dish looks delicious but it's bad for your health in the long term; also it costs you.
Dating/girlfriend is like home-cooked meal --> It doesn't cost you much; in the long term, it's healthy.
Arrangement is like Jenny Craig/Lite and Easy --> Blend of Punting and Dating; It's kinda take-out with the promise of a home-cooked meal.
I've been reading some more profiles lately, and all I can think of is "are you serious?"
Seems like majority of women want a guy who is attractive, earns a lot of money, willing to be their boyfriend, AND to give them money. If there was a guy who fit the first three categories why the hell would he give you money??? Isn't the point of a sugar daddy to trade money in for looks, so why are they so picky about the guy's appearance???
seina, airbnb do you choose private room or entire place to yourself?
is it awkward with loud noises when owner or others nearby?
Always entire place. Usually they leave the keys somewhere hidden and you check in yourself - no contact with the owner.
Hey Mate,
I just joined SA a few weeks back, haven't met anyone yet. Most girls have ridiculous expectations or demand. Something like 500 to 700 per meet for a couple of hours. I'm talking to one reasonably hot Lebanese girl and she quoted 600-700 for a couple of hours.
Just wanted some advice. What is a decent rate to offer per meet? Say something like 2 hours minimum per meet. Any advice/tips welcome.
Thanks.
Cheers
I am gonna have a first meet with a girl in few days.
She said 350 with intimacy.
But she is average ABC girl. she is not that hot.
I did find a hot one who asked for $400.
But she said intimacy is extra and will depend on how we gel.
You are right though. A lot of the girls has ridiculous expectations.
I am fairly creative when sending the message and even then I don't get a reply.
I am not sure what is wrong with Ausiee (ABCs are actually worse) girls they don't give points for making an effort.
One girl even has a rude public caption: Y'all too short and ugly for me.
How can one be so blatantly rude towards everyone?
My suggestion is:
1) Aim for the new chicks who have joined. Even the hot girls might go for your plan.
2) Aim low: Go for the girl who is decent; hot ones get all the attention and are therefore conceited.
3) Read the profile carefully and mention it in your message: Girls look for cue that you're listening.
4) Put your best profile pic
5) If you get to bang that rude caption girl, bang her like crazy. Do it for all the guys.
From what I see, $400 would be an average allowance you should be prepared to pay.
But I am a newbie there so you better wait for bro Seina to answer.
It really depends, I've found that most average to decent looking ABC girls are happy with $300-400.
If you're talking to someone fairly attractive I'd say $500-700 is normal.
Most of the ones I go longer term with don't ask for dollar per hour, it's a genuine fun time for both sides which makes it great.
Good luck with the meet! The only thing you'll need to work out is chemistry!
Some girls have crazy expectations and when they realise it won't be met they'll just leave the site, it's pretty common.
I agree with all five of your points, you're absolutely spot on and all those points work well for me.
$400 is about right per meet, the key is finding someone who won't watch the clock and is just on the site for some extra cash. The last girl I saw was using tinder anyway but then decided she could just find someone to have a few fun dates with and do the same thing but also earn $400 a pop on the side!
Thanks Guys. I countered her 6 to 7 hundred offer with a counter offer of 300 per meet, subject to increase if we like each other. She said okay, she's fine with it but has been quite since. So let's see. I think 400 is the absolute max one should go, and that too if she's pretty hot and willing to please. Else one is better off fucking one of those hot girls at Marlene's for less the price.