Paid fuck buddy?

[faruk]

I see a lot of young Chinese girls working at bubble tea places I wish I could enter into these sorts of arrangements with.

[AHLUNGOR]

I see a lot of young Chinese girls working at bubble tea places I wish I could enter into these sorts of arrangements with.

You will be surprised as some of them could be a WL or ML on the side as well !

Next time you punt, ask your lady if she has a second job......... haha

[Bawal]

I don't use ID either, in fact I never reveal my proper identity to the girls mainly because they are not professional WL, I have a partner and don't want to risk a crazy sugar baby blackmailing me!

Yes, that's exactly it for me as well. As I said, some ladies didn't wanna use their IDs for this same reason as well. Airbnb is the answer.

[jediknight4ever]

I have a fuck buddy. I don't pay her though, I just pay for dinner or movies then go back to her place when her son's at her ex's for the weekend.

[jeter]

I have a fuck buddy. I don't pay her though, I just pay for dinner or movies then go back to her place when her son's at her ex's for the weekend.

Care to share another story? This thread was so epic and funny http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.ph...g-a-single-mum

Better than Netflix.

[jediknight4ever]

Not much to the story, I've known her for over 2 years and would see her every month or two. She's got a good body and C cup at least face is so so, but her nipples are very big and suckable. Last time I saw her it took me an hour to get across the line the 2nd time that I didn't know I was scrapping the skin off my knee against the couches metal frame until I was done. She was a trooper though, we were both exhausted afterwards.

[tayne]

I can see the down sides of these paid buddy arrangements

I prefer to keep the two things separate
Punting means I can enjoy sex pretty much at any time, with a beautiful woman, in nice surroundings
Dating I can enjoy the chemistry with the lady, and not expect to pay her apart from our meals together, and unprotected sex if we are both STI negative on recent tests

To pay someone to be my pseudo girlfriend just doesnt make sense to me.
There is no way I can know if I am just one of many people being used in this way, and unprotected sex in this setting isnt worth it

[yug]

I can see the down sides of these paid buddy arrangements

I prefer to keep the two things separate
Punting means I can enjoy sex pretty much at any time, with a beautiful woman, in nice surroundings
Dating I can enjoy the chemistry with the lady, and not expect to pay her apart from our meals together, and unprotected sex if we are both STI negative on recent tests

To pay someone to be my pseudo girlfriend just doesnt make sense to me.
There is no way I can know if I am just one of many people being used in this way, and unprotected sex in this setting isnt worth it

Let me give you an analogy.

Punting is like take out --> The dish looks delicious but it's bad for your health in the long term; also it costs you.
Dating/girlfriend is like home-cooked meal --> It doesn't cost you much; in the long term, it's healthy.
Arrangement is like Jenny Craig/Lite and Easy --> Blend of Punting and Dating; It's kinda take-out with the promise of a home-cooked meal.

[Brothelcreeper]

Let me give you an analogy.

Punting is like take out --> The dish looks delicious but it's bad for your health in the long term; also it costs you.
Dating/girlfriend is like home-cooked meal --> It doesn't cost you much; in the long term, it's healthy.
Arrangement is like Jenny Craig/Lite and Easy --> Blend of Punting and Dating; It's kinda take-out with the promise of a home-cooked meal.

Great analogy Yug

Punting is delicious I agree

[faruk]

I've been reading some more profiles lately, and all I can think of is "are you serious?"

Seems like majority of women want a guy who is attractive, earns a lot of money, willing to be their boyfriend, AND to give them money. If there was a guy who fit the first three categories why the hell would he give you money??? Isn't the point of a sugar daddy to trade money in for looks, so why are they so picky about the guy's appearance???

[BlueX]

I've been reading some more profiles lately, and all I can think of is "are you serious?"

Seems like majority of women want a guy who is attractive, earns a lot of money, willing to be their boyfriend, AND to give them money. If there was a guy who fit the first three categories why the hell would he give you money??? Isn't the point of a sugar daddy to trade money in for looks, so why are they so picky about the guy's appearance???

Those desperate are not choosy, there are those that are hoping for more than just being sugar baby.

But this forum is not really the consensus. Walking around the city and you would see plenty of young beauties walking with older rich looking guys around

[atgf]

seina, airbnb do you choose private room or entire place to yourself?
is it awkward with loud noises when owner or others nearby?

[seina]

Always entire place. Usually they leave the keys somewhere hidden and you check in yourself - no contact with the owner.

[Poonhound69]

As someone mentioned above, I actually met her on seekingarrangement.

It is true that there are a lot of girls there which just don't work, it's kind of like a dating game but easier for the guys because we have money on our side. It takes a bit of time, and sometimes a few coffee meets before you find the right person, I actually have had 2-3 arrangements there, some were short and others longer.

You'll find a few types of girls:

1. Very hot girls that expect A LOT of cash ($800+ per meet, plus gifts etc) and are very picky with the guy they meet - usually a waste of time as they are out there for maximum cash etc
2. Average girls, that are genuinely out there for $300-500 per meet, they're just after someone that treats them well (basically like a girlfriend)
3. A bunch of girls that are only looking for platonic dates (usually a waste of time)
4. Some virgins that are unsure what they're willing to offer, these are a gamble but I'm convinced if I tried I could probably get one in bed relatively easily
5. A bunch of curious people that aren't really serious and won't commit to meeting in person

You'll find some girls are more like escorts and will just straight up ask for cash for sex and state hours and requirements in their profile as mentioned by someone above, others will not have anything specific in mind nor watch the clock (like the one I met) and see it as a FWB arrangement with some perks.

I've had a fair bit of experience on the site now so feel free to ask if you have questions.

Hey Mate,

I just joined SA a few weeks back, haven't met anyone yet. Most girls have ridiculous expectations or demand. Something like 500 to 700 per meet for a couple of hours. I'm talking to one reasonably hot Lebanese girl and she quoted 600-700 for a couple of hours.

Just wanted some advice. What is a decent rate to offer per meet? Say something like 2 hours minimum per meet. Any advice/tips welcome.

Thanks.

Cheers

[yug]

Hey Mate,

I just joined SA a few weeks back, haven't met anyone yet. Most girls have ridiculous expectations or demand. Something like 500 to 700 per meet for a couple of hours. I'm talking to one reasonably hot Lebanese girl and she quoted 600-700 for a couple of hours.

Just wanted some advice. What is a decent rate to offer per meet? Say something like 2 hours minimum per meet. Any advice/tips welcome.

Thanks.

Cheers

I am gonna have a first meet with a girl in few days.
She said 350 with intimacy.
But she is average ABC girl. she is not that hot.

I did find a hot one who asked for $400.
But she said intimacy is extra and will depend on how we gel.

You are right though. A lot of the girls has ridiculous expectations.
I am fairly creative when sending the message and even then I don't get a reply.
I am not sure what is wrong with Ausiee (ABCs are actually worse) girls they don't give points for making an effort.

One girl even has a rude public caption: Y'all too short and ugly for me.
How can one be so blatantly rude towards everyone?

My suggestion is:
1) Aim for the new chicks who have joined. Even the hot girls might go for your plan.
2) Aim low: Go for the girl who is decent; hot ones get all the attention and are therefore conceited.
3) Read the profile carefully and mention it in your message: Girls look for cue that you're listening.
4) Put your best profile pic
5) If you get to bang that rude caption girl, bang her like crazy. Do it for all the guys.

From what I see, $400 would be an average allowance you should be prepared to pay.
But I am a newbie there so you better wait for bro Seina to answer.

[seina]

Hey Mate,

I just joined SA a few weeks back, haven't met anyone yet. Most girls have ridiculous expectations or demand. Something like 500 to 700 per meet for a couple of hours. I'm talking to one reasonably hot Lebanese girl and she quoted 600-700 for a couple of hours.

Just wanted some advice. What is a decent rate to offer per meet? Say something like 2 hours minimum per meet. Any advice/tips welcome.

Thanks.

Cheers

It really depends, I've found that most average to decent looking ABC girls are happy with $300-400.

If you're talking to someone fairly attractive I'd say $500-700 is normal.

Most of the ones I go longer term with don't ask for dollar per hour, it's a genuine fun time for both sides which makes it great.

[seina]

I am gonna have a first meet with a girl in few days.
She said 350 with intimacy.
But she is average ABC girl. she is not that hot.

I did find a hot one who asked for $400.
But she said intimacy is extra and will depend on how we gel.

You are right though. A lot of the girls has ridiculous expectations.
I am fairly creative when sending the message and even then I don't get a reply.
I am not sure what is wrong with Ausiee (ABCs are actually worse) girls they don't give points for making an effort.

One girl even has a rude public caption: Y'all too short and ugly for me.
How can one be so blatantly rude towards everyone?

My suggestion is:
1) Aim for the new chicks who have joined. Even the hot girls might go for your plan.
2) Aim low: Go for the girl who is decent; hot ones get all the attention and are therefore conceited.
3) Read the profile carefully and mention it in your message: Girls look for cue that you're listening.
4) Put your best profile pic
5) If you get to bang that rude caption girl, bang her like crazy. Do it for all the guys.

From what I see, $400 would be an average allowance you should be prepared to pay.
But I am a newbie there so you better wait for bro Seina to answer.

Good luck with the meet! The only thing you'll need to work out is chemistry!

Some girls have crazy expectations and when they realise it won't be met they'll just leave the site, it's pretty common.

I agree with all five of your points, you're absolutely spot on and all those points work well for me.

$400 is about right per meet, the key is finding someone who won't watch the clock and is just on the site for some extra cash. The last girl I saw was using tinder anyway but then decided she could just find someone to have a few fun dates with and do the same thing but also earn $400 a pop on the side!

[yug]

Good luck with the meet! The only thing you'll need to work out is chemistry!

Some girls have crazy expectations and when they realise it won't be met they'll just leave the site, it's pretty common.

I agree with all five of your points, you're absolutely spot on and all those points work well for me.

$400 is about right per meet, the key is finding someone who won't watch the clock and is just on the site for some extra cash. The last girl I saw was using tinder anyway but then decided she could just find someone to have a few fun dates with and do the same thing but also earn $400 a pop on the side!

Thanks Seina!
Chemistry will definitely be difficult to work out.
And I am guessing my first meet will be rather awkward at first but will hopefully be better as evening passes by.
I am on training wheels with this one.

[Poonhound69]

Thanks Guys. I countered her 6 to 7 hundred offer with a counter offer of 300 per meet, subject to increase if we like each other. She said okay, she's fine with it but has been quite since. So let's see. I think 400 is the absolute max one should go, and that too if she's pretty hot and willing to please. Else one is better off fucking one of those hot girls at Marlene's for less the price.

[seina]

Thanks Seina!
Chemistry will definitely be difficult to work out.
And I am guessing my first meet will be rather awkward at first but will hopefully be better as evening passes by.
I am on training wheels with this one.

My first meet was awkward as heck :P