I’m the type of person who generally sticks with the one girl at the shops I visit and have a list of favourites that I do my ‘rounds’ on and have a great emotional/physical connection with my regulars. However there are times when I want to try someone different at the shop but feel that if my ‘regular’ finds out she may get cut and treat me differently next time we meet.
Have you guys ever experienced this, and from a WL/ML point of view do you think they get jealous of each other in relation to the type/number of clients that they get? Or is it pure business and the ML/WL don’t care who you see, and I am just overthinking things?
I say you're over thinking things and it should be pure business transaction... probably will be cut because she won't be taking your money but one of her "colleagues" will if you see them. Just my 2c... maybe go to a brand new shop you haven't been to. Win win...
I do feel that aswell. I don’t want my favorite to get mad at me for sampling the others. But if she isn’t available/day off, I’ll sample some others from the menu. Hahaha
don't overthink it mate, they dont give a shit either way.
Maybe ask if your regular WL wants to join you in a double. That way she won’t get jealous and you still get to see other girls.
Variety is the spice of life guys. Why stick with one when you can try many? Even if you decided to try someone different at the shop why would it be of concern to the ML you were seeing before? They're all there to make money! Sometimes seeing another ML can instill jealousy in your regular to make her work harder for you and deliver more benefits. Just because you see one girl doesn't mean you are compelled to see the same girl again. Give the other girls a try and you never what might happen.
On the other hand, if you are so attached to this girl or frightened not to upset your regular then choose another day when she is not working and have your session. No dramas. Hasta la vista.
I go to a particular massage shop near the city and I have been seeing the same girl since earlier this year on a weekly basis and in the course of my visits we have had this conversation where she has asked me whether I have seen any other girls from the shop recently. We both hit it off from the start from visit 1 and she is a great girl and provides a great service and there is also a very good connection between us.Originally Posted by exstar
So to answer her question I told her that I had only seen 1 other girl from the shop in the past month because she wasn't working and I had this thought run through my head that maybe she is jealous. After a few more conversations she said to me that she would encourage me if I wanted to try out the other girls but I told her that I am happy with who I am seeing. she even suggested to me to do a double with her and another girl of my choice.
Since that conversation I have actually had two session where I have done a double with my regular ML and another girl that has been sensational experience.
Since we had that conversation and I had seen the other girl I was very cautious of my visits with my regular ML in case her level of service dropped because of that but it has only if not been the same getting better.
I think that there can be at times some jealous girls out there because another girl gets more customers then she is but that could come down to things like they provide a better level of service etc.
I think if the girl your seeing is popular anyway and she gets a good amount of regular customers then I don't think she will mind or even care if you see other girls at the same shop, its not like she is your girlfriend or anything. From both sides its purely a service/transaction being done.
Always wise words Cuteguy.Why stick with one when you can try many? Even if you decided to try someone different at the shop why would it be of concern to the ML you were seeing before? They're all there to make money! Give other girls a try and you never what might happen.
If you are so attached to this girl or frightened not to upset your regular then choose another day when she is not working and have your session. No dramas. Hasta la vista.
Im my limited experience the longer a WL has been there, the more jaded they get and after a while seeing you isnt the same buzz for them as it may have been originally.
Im talking about standard shops, not the ones were a top WL maybe charges twice as much and sees only a few guys a day.
As guys we tend to overestimate the attraction a WL has for you after spending one hour with them, and they work maybe 30 hours a week and see 20-30 guys
I had a regular at 19a Brodie St Rydalmere for 6 months. Young girl, met her when she was new to the industry and we clicked. Saw her several times a week.
Towards the end of our "relationship" I went to the shop. The boss asks if I want to see her and I say no I will see a new girl. She is in the girls waiting room and can see me on the TV screen.
I fuck the other girl and leave.
A couple a weeks later I text my regular to see her and world war 3 breaks loose on the phone along the lines of "go fuck yourself, you liar" and that was the end of that "relationship" so yes, they do get jealous.
Is it a bird, is it a plane, no its Punterman. Always seeking out good value bbbj, DFK, DATY for $150 hr in the Western Sydney brothels.
I made that mistake once with another regular and got a huge lecture along the lines of "why you want other girls, what is wrong with me". She was very jealous and would never accept me seeing other girls.Maybe ask if your regular WL wants to join you in a double. That way she won’t get jealous and you still get to see other girls.
Is it a bird, is it a plane, no its Punterman. Always seeking out good value bbbj, DFK, DATY for $150 hr in the Western Sydney brothels.
I've been seeing an ML at my shop for the past month and out of 4 visits we've fucked 3 times & even though I wanted to see others its extremely hard as she's basically one fucken hot thai chick, when the spark stops I'll try another
You guys realise they are fucking other guys for work so why overthink this. If you feel weird just go when they are not on roster.
At the end of the day, ML/WLs are people too all with their own personality and way of seeing things. Our experiences will definitely differ depending on who we frequent, so it may not always be a case of overthinking issues. @exstar I say go with your gut feeling on this one.
What a head fuck that is. If she is only meeting you in the shop, and you have been paying for the privilege of seeing this lady, then just walk away. Its all been business.
Have nothing to do with her. She can cry on her boyfriends shoulder. Im sure she has plenty of other men to rely on for her wellbeing.
Im sure theres more to this story, have you been encouraging her and other staff that you guys are close?
Just thank your lucky stars you dont have a child with her.
Hello Chaps
In my experience a regular ML/WL is normally more jealous than a regular girl.
They have had loads of bad experiences with bad punters, as well as knowing what a good experience is, so they become attached to a good regular that works for them, and they become rather possessive as a result. Not all, but many. Oddly, ML/WLs generally tend to see their regulars as 'theirs' while thinking nothing of doing several other 'favourite regulars' a week with special benefits. Just like yours truly. It's unfair, but then that's how ML/WLs rationalise their work most of the time: it's just for money so it's OK. It's work. Never mind that they enjoy the sex (which is only natural).
I think there's a weird slut/good girl psychology happening inside a WLs mind, for MLs far less so.
Bongo.
Cheers for the feedback guys - yes it is business but at the same time we are all human. As service providers we would want to hold on to our good customers that treat you well, just as customers we want to stick with the service providers that are good to us - no matter what industry your in. If all we cared about was the end result and not the journey we might as well stay home and jerk off to pornhub! I will though start reducing the frequency that I see my regulars and spread my seed around in between if you know what I mean
We can debate this forever, but a WL/ML would see maybe 6-15 horny guys a day. Hard to believe they would be fixated on a guy (you or me) they may have spent 1 hour with a week ago.
Its the regularity of the income with you they can see going bye bye
Im being a little cynical, looking at it from another side
You are right its a service industry. And its true service providers want to keep reliable customers - for the money, not for personal attachment. Its all about the money, honey
Thread carefully if you intend to keep seeing the same WL/ML for long period.
Used to meet up with a WL, and before we got into a relationship, she actually asked me about my punting history, asked girls from her workplace and any other girls working elsewhere she knows of. She was literally seething in anger when i was telling her about my punting. You may say she had been banged by hundreds of guys already, that doesnt make sense or not fair. But girls being girls, common sense does not apply.
Lol! Was thinking the same thing
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