Marrying is not enough with the new immigration laws.
You have to prove you've been in a relationship for over 2 years. They will ask for proof like social media posts, pictures, talk to friends.
Unless she claims domestic violence and gets the PR card while you are in a mess trying to prove your innocence.
I am actually on the same boat as OP. Been seeing the WL for few months. Texting everyday like a couple and we know we like each other, we even said so. I know this is classic, every WL would say so. We went out once after a session, she told her boss that she is hungry and need an hour break then she asked me if i want to go for dinner and so we did. Ive been doing it raw for the last 3 meetings in a span of 2 weeks with her, asked her why? She initially said cos i wanted but then admitted by saying cos she likes me. I know that is stupid but man Come What May!
I still have doubts, questions in my mind but it is what it is, time will tell, heart may break, i may regret it later but thats consequences of tryna find the right one.
I don't see a WL like most people do. They are like us, have feelings. They sleep with different guys everyday so did millions of girls out there. You never know. Prolly the difference is not as much as WLs. You can date or have relationship with "normal girl" but if you like any WL or starts develop feelings towards her, why don't u go for it? If you are meant to be with the person then you will be.
At the end of the day, most of you may had bad experience with WLs but that does not mean one cannot have a better experience does it?
If you wanna know the girl, here is the clue
She used to work at 5star, moved to an agency then recently moved to another one. Some people say shes no longer working but she still does. She is Korean, late 20s, long dyed brownish hair with limited English.
I will update you guys on how I go with her...
I already know what i have to do
I didn't mean for the post to become so personal, and about me.
I was simply asking what you guys did when you start to get feelings.
I personally believe it can work but can you handle that she's probably slept with thousands of men?
It takes great maturity to let that go.
Then take her away from Sydney if possible and open a cafe. This seems to be a working formula.
just go for her mate, it's an experience and good memory to keep
in a few months or a year time you may end up breaking up with her but you'll have all the fun and good memories to keep. bad things could happen but it's part of life, just always stay in control and don't lose tons of money on her
KEEP IT UNDER CONTROL while having the fun and the excitement. Life is not fun if everyone just plays safe.
PS: btw name her and name the shop, let us help you LOL
OP mentioned he has feelings. We all do.
But discussing feelings in punting is like discussing skiing in Africa. The two do not go together
Not yet but we will. It is not as smooth as it seems. I have asked 6 times but she always had excuses, not that she lied but shes truly couldnt go.
I met her today, overall she told me she doesnt believe me..yet. fair enough cos i met her at the place a couple would never imagine lol
She told me she puts me in her diary. I found this out cos i told her weve been knowing each other for 2 months but she said it is only a month lol and she told non wl friend about me too. We exchange photos, not just ours but our relatives too.
Shes quite sincere which I like and I always told her not to lie and emphasize it in a way that it is ok to tell the truth
So far we are at the stage of liking each other, we know we need more time.