Since you are asking the question in this forum, I suggest you to stay single.
Status symbol? Haha yeah maybe to the country bumpkins over there, but not the city folks.
Given the number of breakups and divorces going around, it is no wonder people are staying clear of marriages and if they are in relationships that they live apart and have no children. A friend of mine has been in a relationship with his girl for 10 years and they have their separate residences with no plans in having children together. I asked why not move in and have children? His response was why make it too complicated! They meet up twice a week and have their fun. There are no dramas and not seeing each other on a regular basis makes them more keen to meet up. Is that the secret to having a relationship these days but not being legally attached to another person?
On the other hand, I love this saying "A wife must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom." Try finding one of those these days!
This is the perfect scenario for me.
A few times a week, then go home to sleep in my own bed suits me fine.
No joint accounts either, keep your finances separate.
I need a punt, my ex wife is getting remarried today. God help him I say.
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I would love to have a Chinese girlfriend or wife eventually. Punting is great because you can do many things with a WL that a girlfriend or wife is not willing to do (CIM, COB, 69 etc). I'm probably 50/50 with remaining single. I have plenty of female friends and they all have issues with partners and husbands so from this point of view, I'm not sure if its worth it.
In saying that, sex isn't everything. Having that connection and spending time together is equally important.
Nah, they met through mutual friends who set her up with him when we separated.
I think it's his third marriage so we'll see what happens.
My biggest concern is the house I sighed over to my ex because my kids live with her and hopefully will inherit the house. This guy could claim half that house if things go bad, then my kids and ex will be in trouble. Well the kids have me but she's not going to give up on child support.
She even asked about getting my super.
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maybe just get a pet dog or something and punt
Relationships is for some and not for others.
Fortunately for me, I found that it is not for me. I was lucky cuz I would have been the type in my naive days to marry anything with a pussy and decent looks
was never raised to understand the compatibility and emotional needs etc, you live and learn.
Now I am much more in touch with myself and understand that what I want is not a relationship but just fking around the world
Mate, if you go West and visit any of those Westfield shopping centre you will see a lot of inter racial marriages : usually it’s an older Aussie bloke with a younger but still mature aged Asian lady (Chinese, Thai or Philipinos are the most common pairing.
Looking from a far, most of these couples seem very happy, I could just imagine the senior guys are having as much sex or bj as he can desire or handle . Not quite sure if the are all legally married but one would think so for the woman to be legally staying in Australia and it won’t be hard to imagine that these women would all tick the three boxes of maid, cook and whore from brother cuteguy!
Say you are Aussie guy in you late 50 or 60, still plenty of Fire 🔥 in your belly , either still single or widower or divorced, no children or all growth up, you own your own house and living alone - if you have a chance to marry a 40 something Asian lady who ticks those three boxes above , why won’t you, you could well live very happily for the remaining of your days! And if she has a good heart and look after you in your final years, it would be well worthwhile to give her everything after you go, why not ? Right ?
Stay single and enjoy life
I always say, You'll know when it's time to get married.
But since the question is asked in this forum, I'd say the married folks browsing the forum punts anyway....
get married but still punt hahahah