What for, unless u want her as ur gf
Just got reconnected last week with my regular after an awful one month coldwar following a wechat fight. I thought we know each other better.
After two crazy and passionate sex (one in the shop,one at her place,of cause I tipped her with money and small gift equivalent to what she can make at shop for the time), I was happily chatting to her this morning.
All went well and felt the strong connection. Great sex and feeling. Suddenly she changed topic and asked me to buy her a Sylvie small hangbag. Said it's only 3,000AUD surely I can afford it. With that money I can see her for over twenty hours at the shop.
I know it's not much for most of the punters in this forum. But I am kind of the person who drives a 2004 CRV. Never spend three grands on a handbag.
I replied that it's too expensive and she pushed until I went silent.
Should I come back and try to comfort her with something else or just leave it.
What for, unless u want her as ur gf
No, not unless you want to be treated just as a sugar daddy. If you just want to punt then think of it in terms of value for money- as you said $3000 is a lot of punts - 10 Ginza visits or double that in a budget shop.
If you want a gf type relationship then I would not look at this WL for that. A real gf who you had a genuine relationship with wouldn’t care about you buying her a $3000 handbag.
Personally I would run for the hills on this one.
I would put roller skates on
Shane
Get her the matching purse as well and stop into Tiffany's on the way home and get her a nice necklace to really impress her. If you have to max the credit card out, just apply for another one.
No red flags going off for you? Seems like she's using you bud. She ain't your gf or wife. In saying that what Toad had said, if your gf or wife is genuine, they wouldn't ask $3k for a bag but to save that $3k for a future together. She might've asked the same thing from other guys also. Just be careful
tell her "I would buy you a $5000 hand bag when you officially become my girlfriend", this will motivate her enough and let you fuck her brains out for many times more, but you know ... she will never really become your real girlfriend, that one day will never come, you decide.
Thanks everyone for the advices. I kind of knew what I should do. And I knew it would appear stupid even asking. But I just want to hear from someone and it's not something that I can discuss with any of my friends or relatives. Feel better when I vent it out.
I am gonna buy myself a nice G-shock which I have been hesitating for a while. And still got plenty left out of the three grands I can exploring new pussies. 😆😆
Lick her boots.
Ask her "Beamer, Benz, or Bentley?"
Take out a second mortgage.
Then 5 payday loans.
All good advice here mate, just stick to punting and leave it there. $3k can be waaaaay better spent on yourself other than a handbag that will be getting carried around as she is at the casino with some other nuffy that booked a room and is spending $150 bets on blackjack table with her.
Run mate fucken run
Go too her shop when she’s working and see another girl.
That would tell her what you think of her hand bag .
two words for you bro. DUMP HER!
Awww hellll no
$3000???