Reply With QuoteDont fall, just dont.
Just as it says, I read some threads of punters falling for ML or WL. Most of us know not to but some still do anyway. I know and understand you can't control emotions.
So what I like to know for the guys that do, how do you develop these feelings knowing other punters like to pound the shit out of your "gf"?
Dont fall, just dont.
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There isn't a punter alive that hasn't awoken one night and wondered 'is she really into me?' and 'I bet she's busy having the time of her life with a guy who drives a better car than me'.
There isn't a WL alive that hasn't stared at a mirror during the wee small hours applying gaudy makeup, silently wishing 'that last guest' would get hit by a car on the way home and wondered about her favourite regular 'He hasn't been to see me in two weeks! Doesn't he know that I have a good heart and that I'm stopping as soon as I pay off my fourth Sydney apartment because I really hate this job.'
Just sayin'
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I am dating one. Been few months, texting everyday, gone for dates etc still have some doubts but im just enjoying the moments though. She promised she'd quit and have a relationship with me next year. But i take it lightly. See what happens next, if we are meant to be then we will be..
Hard to know whether a ML/WL is really serious or truthful to you. Only time and having strong perceptions would tell. I have been with some thats just using me for their own convenience. But been with one for a year, managed to get her quit her job and just living normally now.
But be warned, those that really liked you, may have a strong sense of jealousy and paranoid since they know you have punted before.
Interestingly for someone who loves his wife and presumably not punting anymore, OP sure spends alot of time on a punting forum.
And curious about falling for and dating a WL ?Originally Posted by sukeong
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This is why I think a relationship between ML/WL and punter is doomed to fail from the start. The ML/WL knows you are a punter and will always be suspicious that you are seeing other girls. Many punters on the other hand can’t handle knowing that their gf is fucking other guys day in and day out.
Even if you feel a connection with some girls it’s best not to get involved. Punt, have fun and then go home.
Kate Iselin is a sex worker that is a blogger and writes for one of the Sydney papers pretty regularly. She actually said that if she got into a relationship it would have to be with a punter essentially because they would be more understanding of her work!
https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/re...35351729a0ca4f
Sound advice. I have and it made me feel terrible
Yeah, I read her column as well. Very interesting for punters.
She even goes on dates and tells the guys she's a sex worker.
She finds dating really hard in Sydney and so do I.
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I'm curious, why do you find dating really hard in Sydney ?
Are you referring to dating a WL or ML in Sydney is hard ?
Or dating a normal lady in Sydney is hard ?
Sydney Ladies are demanding ?
I think there's just too much choice and no patience on both parties with all these apps.
If you don't like an aspect of someone you either ghost someone or the same happens to you.
I've had more luck at speed dating but most of the girls are not attractive.
Plus I can't handle girls who are too controlling. Wanting to always be with you, you have to go to family parties. This was quite funny when dating Chinese girls and everyone's speaking Chinese except you, you just smile at everyone. The worst are girls that want to know your finances and tell you how to spend money.
I find dating WLs easy going and relaxed.
I don't know, maybe punting has warped my sense of reality. I think you'll have the same issues with a WL if you move in with them.
So my perfect scenario, to be in a serious relationship but live in separate houses.
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Yeah. I like how she thinks that the right type of punter will be able to relate to her and even give her some type of empathy and compassion.
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It's easy for this type of thing to happen. You need to remind yourself that she's a WL and that sooner rather than later, some random punter will be rooting her and all the rest.
You need to disconnect from the emotions, but still have that connection when you see her. The way I overcome falling for a WL is to treat her like a good friend. That's it. Nothing more and nothing less.
Enjoy the time with her and if you happen to catch up outside of the shop, just enjoy the moment. Don't get clingy etc because I'm certain most WL's have their regulars they catch up with as well.
Ain’t her fault other guys can get it up brah!
On the other hand, falling for a WL/ML is not all bad either, it shows the punter is not totally desensitised of feelings and touch towards the opposite sex, he’ still capable of developing loving feelings, unlike some seasoned punters who can’t even remember the girls’ look as soon as they left !
But it’s best if one can remain in control of his own feelings, not chasing something for the sake of chasing, knows when to pause and access the situation !
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They are all looking for love/money
Hahahaha, hope you enjoy your session.Yeah. I like how she thinks that the right type of punter will be able to relate to her and even give her some type of empathy and compassion.
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My session today was full of kisses, cuddles and lying in each other's arms. I think we both really needed it.
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I have a "platonic" relationship with my ML. We meet about once a month, have lunch and a friendly chat, discuss our love/sex lives, then go back to her place for a massage session, which I pay for.
Occasionally, I have been her partner at events.
No commitment, no expectations. It is just a lot less "sterile" than doing it in the shop.
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