I am dating a massage lady now that has a partner at home and works in shop. I pay her the standard $50 in shop and we often have sex. We spend nights in hotel rooms go away for weekends or simply just hang. She has never asked for money outside of shop.
I understand what she does, She will tell me about her work day and the weird shit that happens behind closed doors. I am average in every way but she likes talking too me.
The way i see it is the Girls are an Actress. They play a part in a play, their job is to entertain and get people to keep coming back. At the end they go home and forgot about the audience until the following day.
I guess if you dont like the play, become the director.