Looking to lose my virginity, advice appreciated

[b00bs]

Yeah getting contacts easy. My other phones full of wl, ml and mamasans contacts. It's just business bro.

Anyways pussy is always better then your hand. Stop watching porn and learn how to fuck. Or else it's just gonna go downhill from here

[sephiroth-zer0]

You guessed it bro. The punting world is upside down where the girls chase you!!

Yeah, but chase us for money...only if they genuinely want you...

[Nomercy]

This guy needs a chick dressed up like in porns videoes and role play like fantasy?

[krnboy]

And i thought they usually won't give it out since it'll be annoying having so many guys on their contact. Why would they wanna give out their contact? To lure you in coming back?

Well I'm still able to get morning wood sometimes naturally, but for porn I need some special stuff, and it's hard to find anything that doesn't bored me. I think I jacked my penis and brain to death lol....

Could be what type of porn you are watching too. Hope things are better on your end bud

[sephiroth-zer0]

Well I think I can confirm cause of my problem now. Tried second time with different girl. I can get erection, it's pretty hard about 80-90%. It goes down to 70% when condom is on. But during vaginal sex it goes down to 50%, don't feel much and can't orgasm. I tested myself to porn after, had to watch a lot for maybe 1-2 hours jacking with my hand to orgasm and cum. I think the cause is my masturbation habits built up for almost 20 years that the dick only get orgasm through intense masturbation. Although years ago I will still orgasm pretty easily. Might need some time to rest and heal to restore the sensitivity.

I get hard erections almost every night during sleep that it's kinda hard to sleep. So I guess that rules out the physical problem with blood flow to penis, more of a sensitivity problem, and too much porn fantasies that real doesn't seem that exciting anymore.

But anyway, at least the anxiety and pressure is over for being a virgin, it's like a huge burden. Although honestly it isn't that big of a deal, not really worth all the chase after something that almost everyone had already. Better if I pursue something more special instead. Although if 10 years ago with raging hormones and desire for sex, it would have been the best thing ever. But I spent all my time and energy chasing and doing other things....

Surprising how porn has changed most of the younger people these days, especially in Japan with tons of guys not even wanting or desire sex anymore, because of all the porn they consume...Although for the past generation of people over 40 now, their sex drive might be even higher than young people these days.

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[dingoman]

Sephiroth have you ever thought of going to a rnt to see if the girls can get you off? Maybe it could be an ice breaker and move on to fs after they can make you cum. I'm trying to think who I should recommend but I suggest you pick someone with more experience as they're pretty good with their hands. There's plenty of reviews out there. Hope this helps.

[sephiroth-zer0]

Sephiroth have you ever thought of going to a rnt to see if the girls can get you off? Maybe it could be an ice breaker and move on to fs after they can make you cum. I'm trying to think who I should recommend but I suggest you pick someone with more experience as they're pretty good with their hands. There's plenty of reviews out there. Hope this helps.

Well, I guess no girls will know my dick as much as I do. But at least after having sex twice I feel better about myself and body image. Although still slim but they actually like my body. And feel more confident talking to hot girls naked. It has helped ease my obsession with sex, and gave me some self confidence, so I guess that helped. Wished I did it earlier. The only problem is from my porn and masturbation over the years. Right now my goal is cut down porn and masturbation and hopefully things will turn better later.

[Hogrider]

Sephiroth have you ever thought of going to a rnt to see if the girls can get you off? Maybe it could be an ice breaker and move on to fs after they can make you cum. I'm trying to think who I should recommend but I suggest you pick someone with more experience as they're pretty good with their hands. There's plenty of reviews out there. Hope this helps.

Agree with Dingoman ,
I prefer going to massage shops over FS shops for a variety of reasons..
not only you get to meet a lot of pretty girls , but also have a nice chat with a relaxing massage..
The tease and touch of a girl who knows what she’s doing, builds up a tension which is good for what’s coming .. nothing beats that buildup ..

Also try JuaGen massage , which can be very very effective.. a ML in Myanmar was my teacher and oh boy what doors she walked me through ..

And yes cut some porn man , eat healthy , excersize and you will be getting your confidence + stamina back in no time ..

[Peterpecker]

Everyone’s different. I can’t remember a ML who had little Punter interested while still lying face down. It doesn’t matter where they’re touching or what part of their body they’re using.... I need to see her, be able to caress her, and preferably be able to get my lips on some part of her to really get going.

That’s another reason I’ve been asking about facilities (joint showers) and will try to vary things up by starting with part 2. Otherwise there’s a big risk of turning over and having the ML just do her stock standard routine while only at half mast, and for whatever reason this can result in being rubbed out quickly and rather unsatisfactorily. It’s always a million times better if I’m already fully raging before she hops on top for the B2B etc

So true. I was in Brisbane a few weeks ago for work. Actually had a bad back, so tried a place recommended here. Great looking, young girls, the massage was great but getting jacked off by a slim enhanced 24 year old Italian girl was nowhere near as good as fucking her. The massage was good. Repeat....

Sephiroth. Try a course of Cialis, start at 10 mg a day, for 10 days then drop down to 5 mg a day. Stay away from porn completely. Go for a walk if you have to. Don't drink. Be pure for the 10 days. See a bulk bill doc for the script, a generic here in Sydney from the pharmacy is good. Don't be shy about this, it is in confidence and several GPs I know take it......Don't buy from the guys that bring in from India, it's not the full dose. Then get to the shops, FS. Try the shops where the girls dress up, wear the flight attendant's outfit, nurse etc. You will go off. Hard! I'll PM my invoice.

[sephiroth-zer0]

So true. I was in Brisbane a few weeks ago for work. Actually had a bad back, so tried a place recommended here. Great looking, young girls, the massage was great but getting jacked off by a slim enhanced 24 year old Italian girl was nowhere near as good as fucking her. The massage was good. Repeat....

Sephiroth. Try a course of Cialis, start at 10 mg a day, for 10 days then drop down to 5 mg a day. Stay away from porn completely. Go for a walk if you have to. Don't drink. Be pure for the 10 days. See a bulk bill doc for the script, a generic here in Sydney from the pharmacy is good. Don't be shy about this, it is in confidence and several GPs I know take it......Don't buy from the guys that bring in from India, it's not the full dose. Then get to the shops, FS. Try the shops where the girls dress up, wear the flight attendant's outfit, nurse etc. You will go off. Hard! I'll PM my invoice.

hmmm, actually I can get erection from the start, but problem is keeping it during intercourse. The vagina doesn't grip and feel as good as my hands, except it's more warm. So I'm trying to restore a decentralised penis. I don't smoke or drink or have any other bad habits except thinking about sex, porn, masturbation and sexual fantasies. Maybe I need to fuck a tight girl, I guess the ones I've done are not so tight.

I do see that going to massage places might be good since there's less of a performance anxiety and expectation about sex. Will they give you FS if you pay extra? Also, stupid question, but I think these don't qualify as remedial massage or physio right? lol

And funny how apparently doctors are the people who go to prostitutes more than others, horny rich bastards....

[liminal]

hmmm, actually I can get erection from the start, but problem is keeping it during intercourse. The vagina doesn't grip and feel as good as my hands, except it's more warm. So I'm trying to restore a decentralised penis. I don't smoke or drink or have any other bad habits except thinking about sex, porn, masturbation and sexual fantasies. Maybe I need to fuck a tight girl, I guess the ones I've done are not so tight.

I do see that going to massage places might be good since there's less of a performance anxiety and expectation about sex. Will they give you FS if you pay extra? Also, stupid question, but I think these don't qualify as remedial massage or physio right? lol

And funny how apparently doctors are the people who go to prostitutes more than others, horny rich bastards....

Yes some Ml’s will do FS , without any prior connection or knowledge of you as a customer. E,G Pure Massage . Other shops have ML’s working who may choose to offer or will if asked. Not always and not too everybody

Here you may be reliant on the PM intel and or build a connection with a Cpl of ML’s

Suggest you try a PML , environment may be better for you , unless you’re getting add stim from been at a shop

[bevis90]

Dude u gotta try not mastabating too much and also the porn stop it. Keep your self healthy , take vitamins and go for a jog may help. I’d start off with a massage place then work your way up to fs parlour

[Turnitup]

This clown, the originator whose call sign I can't even be bothered looking up, needs to stop getting off on this thread. The guy is a wanker, go and buy a fuck and stop wasting everyone's time.