Calling it quits

[Assandlegs]

After a while, it may become boring with the same person and the interest starts to wear away.

I have yet to strike this problem....

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[Forkua]

I'm 21 months clean and it is a daily struggle after a 16 year punting career.
I highly suggest getting a girlfriend you like to fuck and making sure she performs for you. This can take many weeks or months, but you will have fun getting it right.
Watching porn will make you go back to whores.
Watch scare-me-straight STD videos instead.
Of course, then there' the big 4:
family, friends, hobbies and work.
Not too much work, because the other 3 will suffer and you feel like you deserve to have a good time in a brothel.
Finally, if you are a gambler and a whoremonger, that can really fuck you up.
You might not have a pot to piss in when you are an old fart. Sad! (Trump voice).

Well Said Joker80, it is rough when you put it in perspective

[Macbeth_oz]

I am not some Adonis with perfect features and I don’t expect the lady to be either. Most of the Asian girls are offering themselves pretty cheap. I think we get value for money. I would hate it to go back to where it was with just Caucasian women or where it is in Qld. We are pretty spoilt here

[trampslikeus55]

I am not some Adonis with perfect features and I don’t expect the lady to be either. Most of the Asian girls are offering themselves pretty cheap. I think we get value for money. I would hate it to go back to where it was with just Caucasian women or where it is in Qld. We are pretty spoilt here

Couldn't agree more.
I think you need to ask yourself why you punted in the first place. For me it was because I have always like sex. Simple. I turned 50 and realised I wasn't getting any. It just sliped off the radar. So I tried to change and go back on the hunt. I can always remember buying a necklace for my partner. The woman who was serving me was gorgeous. Anyway as the sale concluded, and it was a big sale, courage up, I said would there be a chance to go out sometime. Before the last word was uttered I got a filthy stare and I think the words were no never, but they could have been worse. So this seemed like the lot of a middle aged white man in his own homeland. Then along comes the world of Asian brothels and just so so many beautiful young woman. With it comes all the baggage that we read in this forum, yes they break your heart and cost you a small fortune, but at the end of the day it is a smorgasbord for anyone who just likes sex. I can remember picking Coco at 42G from a lineup. I asked her if it would be ok to fuck you tonight, she smiled and said that would be good. And she put on a show which only she can do. Memorable. And,. I can still remember the saleswoman all those years ago. Mate, take a break, dust yourself off and just see if you miss the fun. If not, then it just may be time.

[Riff888]

I am engaged!

So I'm trying not to think about punting, which means I will be frequenting this forum less.

This is my second time around so the odds are stacked up against me.

All the best for 2019 brothers.

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[Raybo]

I am engaged!

So I'm trying not to think about punting, which means I will be frequenting this forum less.

This is my second time around so the odds are stacked up against me.

All the best for 2019 brothers.

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holy shit! When did this happen???

[trampslikeus55]

Good luck Riff, sound reason to quit🤞

[Riff888]

holy shit! When did this happen???

Hey Raybo, you know the details

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[Riff888]

Good luck Riff, sound reason to quit

Thanks Trampslikeus

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[Assandlegs]

I am engaged!

So I'm trying not to think about punting, which means I will be frequenting this forum less.

This is my second time around so the odds are stacked up against me.

All the best for 2019 brothers.

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Bro Riff !!!! Great news !! You will be missed..

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[Riff888]

Bro Riff !!!! Great news !! You will be missed..

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Lol it's not that easy to stay away from this forum. Even when I don't punt for weeks

Thanks Assandlegs

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[jbrowz]

All the best mate.

[Riff888]

all the best Riff.
I am with you on this one.

My longest absense from the scene was about 10 years, but it had nothing to do with engagement or romance or marriage.

With regard to quit punting, while in college, a wise classmate told me this: best (only?) way to quit an addiction is to divert your energy to another hobby that is more healthy n productive.

That's some great advice.

I can think of a few hobbies I can get into but the only one that will take my mind off punting would be playing music in a band. Doesn't help that I can't play an instrument but I've always wanted to learn bass or drums. Wouldn't mind trying some music creation software like Fruity Loops or Pro Tools.

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[Niceguy11]

Congratulations Riff. That is great news about getting engaged.

I've been thinking about quitting punting for a while now. I'm not concerned about the cost of punting but the empty feeling I get after a punt. I mean its all fun and I have a great time with the WL, but its that feeling afterwards. Weird thing is that when I wake up the next day, all I can think about is my next punt then the cycle of feelings repeats itself.

I don't know why but punting is addictive. Last week, I punted 3 times. I want to quit so badly.

[paddington244]

That's some great advice.

I can think of a few hobbies I can get into but the only one that will take my mind off punting would be playing music in a band. Doesn't help that I can't play an instrument but I've always wanted to learn bass or drums. Wouldn't mind trying some music creation software like Fruity Loops or Pro Tools.

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mate anyone I know enjoy your new life

[Riff888]

mate anyone I know enjoy your new life

Lol yes but not the one you're thinking of

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[Riff888]

Congratulations Riff. That is great news about getting engaged.

I've been thinking about quitting punting for a while now. I'm not concerned about the cost of punting but the empty feeling I get after a punt. I mean its all fun and I have a great time with the WL, but its that feeling afterwards. Weird thing is that when I wake up the next day, all I can think about is my next punt then the cycle of feelings repeats itself.

I don't know why but punting is addictive. Last week, I punted 3 times. I want to quit so badly.

Thanks Niceguy11, I'll keep you posted

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[rooter]

Punting should just be a hobby, something you do for fun.
That's all it is for most punters. But for some punters it goes beyond that.
If you are regularly punting more than 3 times a week, week after week, month after month, then you probably have some serious issues you need to deal with.
You are probably trying to compensate for something missing in your life, or have low self esteem, or have mental health problems etc.
And if in addition to non stop punting you are boasting and bragging non stop to strangers on a forum about paying for sex then your problems are even more serious.
Get some perspective and balance in your life.
Talk to your friends and family if you have them, or to your GP, or get on to one of these web sites.

Beyond Blue
https://www.beyondblue.org.au/

Men's Shed
https://mensshed.org/

Life Line
https://www.lifeline.org.au/

Mens Line
https://mensline.org.au/

Reach Out
https://au.reachout.com/


All the best in 2019!
Life is a rich kaleidoscope of feelings, thoughts, emotions, friendships, relationships, adventures, and experiences ... and boring daily chores too.
Keep it varied and don't fixate on one thing (no matter how good it seems to feel at the time) and partake of the rich tapestry of life out there ... and in there ... Enjoy!

[paddington244]

Punting should just be a hobby, something you do for fun.
That's all it is for most punters. But for some punters it goes beyond that.
If you are regularly punting more than 3 times a week, week after week, month after month, then you probably have some serious issues you need to deal with.
You are probably trying to compensate for something missing in your life, or have low self esteem, or have mental health problems etc.
And if in addition to non stop punting you are boasting and bragging non stop to strangers on a forum about paying for sex then your problems are even more serious.
Get some perspective and balance in your life.
Talk to your friends and family if you have them, or to your GP, or get on to one of these web sites.

Beyond Blue
https://www.beyondblue.org.au/

Men's Shed
https://mensshed.org/

Life Line
https://www.lifeline.org.au/

Mens Line
https://mensline.org.au/

Reach Out
https://au.reachout.com/


All the best in 2019!
Life is a rich kaleidoscope of feelings, thoughts, emotions, friendships, relationships, adventures, and experiences ... and boring daily chores too.
Keep it varied and don't fixate on one thing (no matter how good it seems to feel at the time) and partake of the rich tapestry of life out there ... and in there ... Enjoy!

nice stuff rooter

[steveba50]

Just keep in mind that having a GF or wife is far more expensive than punting andyou only have 1 person to choose from.

I had a friend ( married guy )ask me why I waste money punting. I said" look around you, your house, car,mortgage, screaming kids and same life/woman everyday.....you're like a mouse running all day on your wheel to get your food pellet at 5pm when you finish work....etc etc....your paying far more than me". He didn't like hearing that but later agreed.

It's horses for courses a family man life or a mongers life ( some guys in between that ) they both have their good points. No right or wrong answer or being judgemental but mongering/punting is far cheaper imho.

Cheers.