He sounds like one of my bigger fans, I must send him a complimentary Easter Egg.....Or a set of steak knives
Whatever you think, seeya
The reason I dont DATY or BBFS, and rarely ever BBBJ is because of the comments I see on these forums.
What happens at the shop, stays at the shop. Except Herpes. That shit is for life. Imagine having to explain that to your missus or future partners.
I remember just before Covid there was a big outbreak of Chamydia at a popular shop that features heavily on this forum.
It happens dudes. You know the risks.
Only one girl i ever bbfs out of a couple hundred punts. The final time i had a fever 2 days after. Was stressing at the time and thought i had aids. Did all this googling and discovered hiv aint that easy to catch even with a gal who is positive, about 1 in a hundred they said. (Dont know how true this is...) real risk is when you do anal.
Ended up being tonsillitis, i reckon came from dfk her.
I have seen Iris at 88a a couple of times, awesome service........not french
Second time I ever punted in my youth, I had the same sore throatt experience. I admit to freaking out (the naiveity of youth) and partially offended the WL by asking if she had been tested recently but was diplomatic enough not to get a backlash from her. Turned out to be a common cold, probs after being naked in cold aircon in the hotel room all night with the WL lol.
Goes to show, the psychological effects, even without BBFS. I cant lie that I haven't had BBFS (total three times) with my first ever WL (who became my reg over a period of 10 years but didn't BBFS until the last three years), a young inexperienced WL who got caught up in the moment and a Japanese WL where little bro accidentally slipped in during pussy slide after she got super wet.
Aside from my reg, I stopped the BBFS after a couple of minutes as the big head heeded caution over little head. Though all three girls admitted to BBFS feeling better for them (apparently it feels less 'artificial' and they are less likely to dry out from longer sex), I always told them they shouldn't be risking it, not with me and not with anyone else. Only my reg insisted that we do BBFS in the latter years and we always tested regularly and she was on the pill.
I definitely wouldn't recommend asking for BBFS, there's no point to given sex doesn't feel THAT much better. I'd rather develope a great connection with a wl and be safe.
I'm also cycling through protected and BBFS with my current partner so definitely sex with condom only if I'm punting. If we care about our significant others, then we shouldn't risk them just because we want a few moments of pleasure.
+1
A few stats for the lads with warts and all.
https://www.health.nsw.gov.au/Infect...ets/herpes.PDF
https://www.abs.gov.au/ausstats/abs@...ures10jun+2012
Spot on. Only CBJ and no kissing for me these days - especially if you have a partner. Learnt my lesson younger days (always been careful for yes now). 2 times chlamydia - first time I swore to doc never again. Second time I kid you not I said to put a dom on and she did for first session but at the end she sucked me off (she was so good at the end and prob was trying to show me what I was missing - but fmd it was my luck after not doing it so long that I got it fucken again). Also freaked the sht out of me one time and I got really sick and tired and looked up stuff like you - I was really tired and exhausted and sleeping all the time and then had to travel which was a disaster. It ended up being mono / glandular fever which had symptoms like HIV which scared the absolute sht out of me. Apparently got from kissing so none of that for me anymore.
What two consenting adults do is nobody's business...
Whilst barebacking does come with risks there are many benefits associated with the practice. According to Master Mantak Chia men should have lots of sex but not cum very often. That way their yang (the male essence, the source of masculine strength, creativity and longevity) will remain within their bodies. Moreover, barebacking often and ensuring the woman reaches orgasm is beneficial for men because the waters of the yin (a woman's vaginal secretions) can help strengthen his declining yang.
So bareback responsibly and test for STIs frequently.