Not throwing shades at all.
I did mention that I was just surprised, didn't I?...No anger, no disapproval (again, who am I to disapprove anyway!).
Plus, that "setting traps for themselves" thing was for people who make bigger claims such as saying I will not see any other girls except you.
People say these things without thinking but it's a lot harder to follow.
Few years ago I had couple of terrible sessions at M5 and I said to myself the same thing: I will not set foot there again.
Then, one of my favorite Chinese girls from another shop moved there and I couldn't resist. Who cares about the shop?...It was the girl I was after.