Becoming friends with a WL

[rooter]

I have been best friends with WLs on many occasions - for exactly one hour

[Niceguy11]

I would be treading carefully bro. I have a few WL friends and once you know them, it really opens the doors to what the industry is really like if that makes sense. It's really tricky because its hard to know if they are really there to be friends or if they want your money in the long term. One of my WL friends is great because she doesnt send regular messages like "hi baby you coming tonight to see me ?" only when shes working. Others might be like "hey how you going or hows your day been" as an example.

So yeah, just tread careful but don't get too involved with them because it can open a shitload of problems if you are not careful.

[Assandlegs]

I don't reckon I am qualified to provide any advice here after what has happened..... lol

[Azninvasion85]

Haha Thanks for the advice brothers! I'm not looking for free sex. I just think she's a cool and funny chic and from my convos with her a girl that's quite intelligent as well. My intentions are pure! I think... lol I've only seen her once at the shop, 3 times out side just for a coffee catch up n chat. That's it. She hasn't messaged to ask if I'm going to see her or anything like that. It's just like how I chat to my female friends.

[Thai_Player]

WL have many "friends"

You will just be another mobile number on her many mobile phones...
She will chew you up & spit you in a second because she has many "friends"
Trust me, the sex will get shit because you are friends
She wont fuck you like the 1st time
And you will think about all the CUM she has swallowed while you are dreaming about her
It will fuck you emotionally
It will make you doubt everything she tells you

Fuck her, stay clear of any relationship
It's not worth it dude

[Brothelcreeper]

There is a difference between being friends with a WL and dating one. The latter is fraught with emotional nightmares unless you don't care what she is doing all day with other blokes. We all know it is her "job" but as you drop her off at work and then sit at your desk all day wondering what she is being asked to do with these blokes it plays on your mind and you are thinking how many people have fucked her arse / pussy / face today, how many punters made her orgasm, which punters are trying to date her, which punters have been nasty to her or unpolite. Not easy territory.

On the other hand being friends is relatively harmless as you can avoid the emotional side of the relationship. A lot of WL's are quite lonely over here as their families are overseas and they like the connection to a local for days out on their days off, coffee, lunch etc.

[mcjesus]

She wont fuck you like the 1st time
And you will think about all the CUM she has swallowed while you are dreaming about her

...which punters are trying to date her, which punters have been nasty to her or unpolite...

wow, these words really got me. now i really need to build a wall.

[Climax598]

You read her reviews on how you guys fuck her. How hard she being fuck. How long and how big the cock. Eating guys cum and making her orgasm many time. Having long fucking session like 2 or 3 round.
Do you guys feel jealous or find it erotic read your girl reviewsreviews?

[cuteguy]

My friend was very good friends with an Asian WL until a series of events one night made him decide to defriend her. She was working for an escort agency and kept saying how she wanted to make it up to him because she had always been busy and as friends, they had spent little time together. They would text each other many times and when she was lonely or feeling upset after running into a bad customer, she would chat with my friend who was there for her when she needed some support. Sometimes she would call late in the evening and cry because some customer had mistreated her and her boss didn't care.

The WL called my friend and told him that she would be free one night during the week to have a night together. He knew she was a busy girl because she was in high demand by customers. She promised him that she would spend time with him and there would be no disruptions. He made reservations for dinner at a classy restaurant in the city and later to see a movie at the cinema in George Street. She loved comedy and he chose a late night session to see this particular comedy with her.

The night comes and she calls to say she is running late. My friend was thinking to himself whether she had stood him up especially after she had given him an undertaking that she would be available for him for the entire night and would not be taking any outcall jobs. Well, she decided to work and as a result, she was late for dinner because her boss wanted her to see one of his VIP customers. My friend was disappointed with her late appearance and she appeared 1.5 hours late. She was well dressed and turned up in a fur coat and underneath she was wearing a hot red dress that showed off her nice cleavage (no bra) and sexy curves and high heels. (How did I know because my friend took photos and showed them to me). She was a sexy girl that made guys stop to feast their eyes on her. She was hot!

Getting back to the story, my friend asked her if she had any bookings later and she said no. They had their dinner and of course he paid for her and then they moved onto the cinema. Then the calls started coming from her boss at the commencement of the movie. She then told my friend she had to go to World Square because her boss had some customers who were having a huge party and wanted a few girls to celebrate with them. She got up and left him alone to watch the movie. He couldn't believe what had happened and felt really angry.

Later that night, she called him to say that the party turned out to be one huge orgy. She felt really bad that she had taken this job. My friend didn't care after that. For him, she was nothing and not a friend. After all the promises she made to him and that she would be spending time with him only and no one else, she couldn't even manage to do this for him. The friendship was over after that night.

So there you have it guys. A true story of a friendship with a WL that went sour because she was more interested in making money than being there for a friend just for one night only.

[CunningLinguist]

Dude that sounds pretty standard, no suprises. Also it's not just WLs that act like that. Alot of young good time popular chicks act that way ...

[Climax598]

Yes, l know man trying to get a pussy as a partner is not easy sometime. Just move on and try your luck on other pussy. He is right to drop her if she only play around with him.

[mcjesus]

Truth is your friend never had any interest in being a friend to the WL - only to try and have sex with her and brag to you and other friends about it. She knows this, too, and so she doesn’t take the “friendship” seriously.

What ? It’s the truth!

wtf? u defending for the WL in the story???

holy moly some guys’ servitude to women is insane!

all i want to add to mr.cuteguy’s story is the sad fact that the orgy might very likely be a bareback orgy.

plus, although the WL always blames her boss, i feel like the WL WANTS to be in the orgy, u know, to be around those rich guys. good luck with these kinds of girls.

[the_boss_king]

from experience, you might just be paying for a talk session.
so know when to set boundaries, unless thats what your after?

[cuteguy]

Truth is your friend never had any interest in being a friend to the WL - only to try and have sex with her and brag to you and other friends about it. She knows this, too, and so she doesn’t take the “friendship” seriously.

What ? It’s the truth!

Hey Doritos,

If you don't know the truth it's best not to make assumptions. My friend was a gentleman who had a soft spot for people in need. She had her own work and he had his own life. She told him what she did and he didn't see her as someone with whom he could score. He was not a sleazebag hoping to get into any girl's panties. They were just friends and when she needed someone to talk to (usually late in the evening), she would call him and he was always there to listen to her and cheer her up. We forget to realize that guys and girls can still be friends without having sex but of course, for some guys it's not possible.

Anyway, her life as an escort wasn't the best nor was her childhood. She would cry after seeing some customers and other times she felt lonely because she didn't have any close friends. They were always texting each other and chatting on their mobiles. He suggested to her to meet up one night to see how she was going because she had been saying many times that they were friends but she could never find the time to take a break from work and just spend some time with him as a friend. The opportunity came to meet up in two public places and not in a hotel room! Unfortunately, she couldn't keep her promise with a friend who was there for her when she felt unhappy. She could have told her boss that she was not working that night but no, she kept her work phone on. She sure made a good sum of money from that night because her hourly rate was high.

[cuteguy]

So in summary, you’re saying your friend does not want or plan to have sex with her at some stage? That he only listens to her cries and sob stories because he is a good friend ? I’m just asking.

Because if your friend knows the girl does what she does, and could never find the time to meet him, as you said, surely what happened should not have been that surprising?

I think the fact that the girl ended up choosing work over the date that night, and your friend’s reaction to it, says it all about this so called “friendship”.

At least the gentleman got a few lovely snaps of her with a fur coat & a sexy red dress on (complete with her nipples poking, as bonus lol)

What he told me was that they were just friends and no sex buddies. It was no date for them. Just an opportunity to catch up as friends. He knew what she did and he was not in it for the sex. Who would have thought that she would walk away leaving him alone in the cinema when she had told him that she was going to put work aside that one night to meet up with him? How would you feel after what happened?

In the end, he came to the conclusion that she had no respect for him and why should he waste his time for her. If a person wants to be friends and go out with you on a social basis they will find time and drop other engagements or tasks to do it. You can't be busy all the time. In the WL's case, it's no wonder she had few friends to turn to because she couldn't even keep her own promise to my friend and for her, work was more important than anything else. Very sad and in doing so, she lost a genuine friend.

[woods23]

What he told me was that they were just friends and no sex buddies. It was no date for them. Just an opportunity to catch up as friends. He knew what she did and he was not in it for the sex. Who would have thought that she would walk away leaving him alone in the cinema when she had told him that she was going to put work aside that one night to meet up with him? How would you feel after what happened?

In the end, he came to the conclusion that she had no respect for him and why should he waste his time for her. If a person wants to be friends and go out with you on a social basis they will find time and drop other engagements or tasks to do it. You can't be busy all the time. In the WL's case, it's no wonder she had few friends to turn to because she couldn't even keep her own promise to my friend and for her, work was more important than anything else. Very sad and in doing so, she lost a genuine friend.

Your friend is lucky.....he should thnx her for it.
A good lesson learnt in life...

A good story for other guys to wake up to !

[mcjesus]

Your friend is lucky.....he should thnx her for it.
A good lesson learnt in life...

A good story for other guys to wake up to !

he should thank god, or anla, or buddha, or whatever for it. thank her? no. fuck her.

[cuteguy]

Your friend is lucky.....he should thnx her for it.
A good lesson learnt in life...

A good story for other guys to wake up to !

Thanks Woods23.

Let this be a lesson for all guys out there when dealing with WLs.

[CunningLinguist]

To get the full story I think we need to know how your friend met the WL in the first place ?

[jk_268]

Your friend is lucky.....he should thnx her for it.
A good lesson learnt in life...

A good story for other guys to wake up to !

Agreed, not just with WLs/MLs though.. can also apply outside too if the girl and guy have a certain dynamic or personality