Originally Posted by
petergriffin
Today I heard on radio on Kyle and Jackie o show that a girl called their station asking for advice about her husband/partner. They moved from NZ/Melbourne to Sydney and things are going well till recently she found out her partner have been visiting a massage joint in China town regularly paying $80-$160 each time, it seems he runs his business and the girl help does his books keeping and found the charges from that massage joint. Maybe (maybe) he pays for "extra" as well as massage, of course no one knows if he did but it's most likely he did.
Some callers gave advices:
- first caller (a girl) said she needs to spice it up with the partner so he won't need to visit the massage parlour, which Kyle said that wouldn't work (apparently Kyle knows), and that it has nothing to do with the girl's issue. Kyle said it's hard to explain, jerking off at home gets boring (true). Well it's because it's also variety, habit, relief, things you can't get at home etc.
- another dude called, he said he goes to acupuncture place for 10 years and never been to a massage shop, so she just needs to confront her partner.
- another caller: leave him, she got into same situation and it just got worse over time, starting with occasional brothel visits then further datings, advertising himself etc
- another caller (male): it's like paying for a taxi, it's a business transaction, no emotional attachment so she shouldn't need to worry about it. Which some disagreed some agreed.
The girl eventually said she would need to ask her partner about it. And Kyle warned on the air, if you are that man, be prepared to come up with a story.
I bet the guy is also on this forum, at least reading.
The real advice come from the real punters. Anyone?