Sorry to say this riff and it probably comes as my conflict is so fresh right now and the realisation sets in that I've lost so much...but...ARE YOU FUCKING STUPID.

Animals (even insects) learn from their mistakes and don't make the same mistake twice. And after losing so much from one failed marriage you going for another???
Have you forgotten the hurt and anguish you were put through, are you a glutton for punishment???
After hearing all the stories from the dads group I've been going to I'm beginning to understand why men harm and self harm..something I never understood before.

Having gotten that off my chest if a certain friend of my ex came back to the country to spend time with me I'd be happy to marry her!!!