How do you guys keep emotionally or mentally disconnected?

[hyperultra]

I typically won't see an ML more then 5 times. But then I have broken that rule a few times....
One ML told me everything said in the room is BS.. So never let words affect u too much...

Visiting the same girl 5 times ? Each time you visit, her words dont mean anything?

Id go a bit crazy this way

Nicer to see a woman once or twice, make wonderful love together, then on to the next one
Too much talk is just counterproductive. She wont be in your life long term, so safe your energy

[CunningLinguist]

I got no probs seeing WL/MLs many times if the service is good, just need to switch off after you walk out!

[hyperultra]

I got no probs seeing WL/MLs many times if the service is good, just need to switch off after you walk out!

Thats true. I just keep banter to a minimum. Plenty of things we can be doing with our mouths. Talking is not what Im paying for

[Warrabong]

i met the girl on her first day as a ML, and i was her first customer actually. She clicked all my boxes, young, fun, bubbly and open. i should have taken her out of the shop that day...

now i guess its just too late

Please tell me you don’t really believe you were the first customer. There was probably more.

[Lostinblonde]

i was exactly the first one, she was fresh as a teenager and thats what i like most

[PervySage]

Visiting the same girl 5 times ? Each time you visit, her words dont mean anything?

Id go a bit crazy this way

Nicer to see a woman once or twice, make wonderful love together, then on to the next one
Too much talk is just counterproductive. She wont be in your life long term, so safe your energy

I got no probs seeing WL/MLs many times if the service is good, just need to switch off after you walk out!

The 5 visits is for a few reasons.

Give me time to get to FS (if they do this!!) with an ML, a few sessions to enjoy the FS, and finally 5 visits is the limit before I find I can't completely switch off from an ML.

Precisely because their chats slowly begin to affect that I have this rule.

If it was an WL then yeh I probably would not see her more then 2x before moving on.

[niva321]

rooter and hyperultra you guys are wise.

Seeing some of these women has exposed aspects of myself I can improve. Emotional security, confidence, addiction and reliance (porn, masturbation, etc)

Rooter, how often do you see a WL to have that mentality, with butterflies in stomach etc?

I have seen too many lately (breaking my own restrictions) and now I am so bored and uninterested in sex.

[Meng]

i was exactly the first one, she was fresh as a teenager and thats what i like most

I spoke with a lot of WLs and one of them told me this tidbit. Whenever you ask them if you’re their first one they’ll always say yes. If you ask them if they’re busy, they’ll always say no.

It’s their job to stroke your ego so don’t believe what they say.

If you want to disconnect just think when you leave, how many hundreds of thousands of dicks will be drilling this girl that Elon Musk would hire them to his Boring Company lol.

[Lostinblonde]

I spoke with a lot of WLs and one of them told me this tidbit. Whenever you ask them if you’re their first one they’ll always say yes. If you ask them if they’re busy, they’ll always say no.

It’s their job to stroke your ego so don’t believe what they say.

If you want to disconnect just think when you leave, how many hundreds of thousands of dicks will be drilling this girl that Elon Musk would hire them to his Boring Company lol.

the drama with the ML was a little bit different and we had some conversation outside of the shop but yeah, it was a thing of the past so meaningless to think about now.

[Brothelcreeper]

I spoke with a lot of WLs and one of them told me this tidbit. Whenever you ask them if you’re their first one they’ll always say yes. If you ask them if they’re busy, they’ll always say no.

It’s their job to stroke your ego so don’t believe what they say.

If you want to disconnect just think when you leave, how many hundreds of thousands of dicks will be drilling this girl that Elon Musk would hire them to his Boring Company lol.

Wise words Meng

The girls job is to make you feel good, just like an Estate Agent showing you a house for sale.

They will tell you what you want to hear.

“Handsome boy”, “nice body”, “big cock”, “shop is quiet” (so you don’t think she has been fucked senseless all day), “you are No1”, “wow big load”, “I cum so many times”, “I miss you darling/ honey”, etc etc etc

[hyperultra]

I spoke with a lot of WLs and one of them told me this tidbit. Whenever you ask them if you’re their first one they’ll always say yes. If you ask them if they’re busy, they’ll always say no.

It’s their job to stroke your ego so don’t believe what they say.

If you want to disconnect just think when you leave, how many hundreds of thousands of dicks will be drilling this girl that Elon Musk would hire them to his Boring Company lol.

But punters are the same.

I often say 'this is my first time here' so I seem innocent. I also say 'you are beautiful'
Its a fantasy world and both people are playing the game

[Climax598]

I tell the wl you are a good are sucking my cock
Your pussy is tight. You have nice tits. You are beautiful. I like fucking you. I miss you from the last fuck. You are the best in servicing me. I only fuck you no other girls. You have nice body.
So we all used each other. The only thing is we pay to use the girl and the girl earn our money. So I guess we are even.

[hyperultra]

I tell the wl you are a good are sucking my cock
Your pussy is tight. You have nice tits. You are beautiful. I like fucking you. I miss you from the last fuck. You are the best in servicing me. I only fuck you no other girls. You have nice body.
So we all used each other. The only thing is we pay to use the girl and the girl earn our money. So I guess we are even.

For that one hour you are both the most attractive and most sexually desirable people on the planet

[sydpunt]

I do the same. Say nice things about their strength or beauty in this case. So that they give you a good service which can improve the session even if say, they are not as pretty, but good attitude will improve the mood 10x.

As I am young, some say why do you come here you can get it outside, you are handsome etc... half of my believe it and the other half is sceptical

[hyperultra]

I do the same. Say nice things about their strength or beauty in this case. So that they give you a good service which can improve the session even if say, they are not as pretty, but good attitude will improve the mood 10x.

As I am young, some say why do you come here you can get it outside, you are handsome etc... half of my believe it and the other half is sceptical

If you are polite, courteous and a gentleman, its a shame all sessions cant be playful and fun. If the service isnt consistently fun and enjoyable, dump the shop. You are paying money to be pampered and pleased

[krnboy]

At the end of the day their job is similar to a bartender. A good bartender will make you think they are your close friend and easily connect with you but never forget they are on the clock and probably would rather be anywhere else.

Or a sales person wanting to earn commission selling herself

[gentleguy]

Thats funny I usually get told "no busy" when I ask if they were busy today. The usual stuff like you're handsome and are you single. I did get close to a couple of WL back in the day and one wanted to marry me for visa. I did feel emotionally attached to her and hated the fact she was working 6 days a week at a brothel. Had a couple of dinner dates with her thats about it outside of work.

[Peterpecker]

Rooter, totally agree.