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    Healthy mentality for punting

    Hey all,

    Recently I had some difficulty separating emotions and sex with a regular escort.

    Being relatively new to this hobby, I was ill-prepared for unexpected challenges.

    There are also many threads and posts indicating others also have this issue.

    I want to share a healthy mentality towards punting. This is for people who may not find this obvious.

    They are providing a service to you. The mentality you have towards them should be similar to the person who makes your coffee, or the doctor who sees you, or your employee.

    To have empathy for them, consider yourself at your job doing things the boss requires, or a client you are serving. It is a job and although the people you are serving can make it easier or even enjoyable, it is still a job and you would rather not be doing it. Same goes for these women, so don't try to make their job harder by bringing your feelings into it.

    If a punt is bad, think of it like your cafe accidentally burning your coffee one time. Maybe it there is a pattern then it's time to find a new one. In the long run, it is always a winning strategy to be humble and generous.

    Yes they are paid well but being entitled can hurt people. They still have a difficult job to present their best and vulnerable selves to you gents.

    Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

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    Thanks. Keep posting more of your reflections

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    i will write a post shortly about the same topic - i am thinking to have a rest from all these shit, its mentally distracting and depressing for introverted punter

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lostinblonde View Post
    i will write a post shortly about the same topic - i am thinking to have a rest from all these shit, its mentally distracting and depressing for introverted punter
    It takes time to get your head around it. Anyway we can get you feeling better?

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    When you go to a punt you switch on and you give a girl your heart and soul 100% and for that 60 minutes you treat her like she is the only girl in the world and enjoy yourself like crazy.
    And then it's over and you simply switch off and that's it, you go home.
    You definitely should not treat a punt like a cold business transaction otherwise you won't get the full benefit of the experience.
    Don't try and protect yourself by having a cold heart.
    1. Switch on
    2. Give yourself totally and indulge fully in the moment.
    3. Switch off.
    That's the key to enjoying punting.

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    you punt for your body not for your mind

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    Body and Mind are connected and contribute equally to total wellbeing

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    Quote Originally Posted by rooter View Post
    When you go to a punt you switch on and you give a girl your heart and soul 100% and for that 60 minutes you treat her like she is the only girl in the world and enjoy yourself like crazy.
    And then it's over and you simply switch off and that's it, you go home.
    You definitely should not treat a punt like a cold business transaction otherwise you won't get the full benefit of the experience.
    Don't try and protect yourself by having a cold heart.
    1. Switch on
    2. Give yourself totally and indulge fully in the moment.
    3. Switch off.
    That's the key to enjoying punting.
    Theres the issue. Its difficult for a lot of young shy guys who cant get a girlfriend in their real lives, to switch off after a punt. The attention shown to them by a WL is often way more intense than anything will give them in their personal life.

    Shy lonely guys dont realise the WL they are attracted to often have a bf, some are way too attractive not to have at least 5 male options, and are just doing the job to pay the bills - its nothing personal

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    A WL that is good at her job knows how to make a guy feel really special. And that makes a good punt.

    If a guy is treated well and feels the girl is genuinely interested in him he will be more relaxed, enjoy himself more and be more likely to make more bookings.

    But you just have to remember that these girls are professionals and some are better at connecting with clients than others. Once you walk out the door they will then turn their focus to their next client.

    So enjoy the moment, but don't start thinking about them as if they are going to be the love of your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CountryPunter View Post
    A WL that is good at her job knows how to make a guy feel really special. And that makes a good punt.

    If a guy is treated well and feels the girl is genuinely interested in him he will be more relaxed, enjoy himself more and be more likely to make more bookings.

    But you just have to remember that these girls are professionals and some are better at connecting with clients than others. Once you walk out the door they will then turn their focus to their next client.

    So enjoy the moment, but don't start thinking about them as if they are going to be the love of your life.
    Well said. My futile wish was that WL all knew how to make the guy feel special. After all he is paying over $200 in many cases for this service. But cant ask for everything in life.
    If I pay a $40 haircut I generally get satisfaction. But paying over $200 in the punting world, I have to take my chances

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    Quote Originally Posted by murphy View Post
    Well said. My futile wish was that WL all knew how to make the guy feel special. After all he is paying over $200 in many cases for this service. But cant ask for everything in life.
    If I pay a $40 haircut I generally get satisfaction. But paying over $200 in the punting world, I have to take my chances
    Even haircuts you have to try and see if the result is good. No difference.

    Just bumping to remind people about healthy punting

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    As many punters have said, the best way to forget about a past ML/WL is to meet a few more. Keep meeting them and the chemicals in your brain will erase the traces of your past brief experience

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    Quote Originally Posted by murphy View Post
    As many punters have said, the best way to forget about a past ML/WL is to meet a few more. Keep meeting them and the chemicals in your brain will erase the traces of your past brief experience
    Totally agree. You realise that the intense attraction is just a chemical reaction, and once it passes you can be logical again.

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    healthy body is a healthy mind

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