Quote Originally Posted by murphy View Post
What turned me off is when she asked how big my house is, and did I own it. Probably a normal question to ask, but I felt the question was a little inappropriate on a first date. There my interest faded quickly

On the other hand, if you tell a lady you dont own property and rent with two other people, their interest fades fast
I share your disgust of such questions on a first date. I've never met such a WL/ML, but have had a few Chinese coworkers of this ilk, most folks in the office get turned off when asked.