This is true. We need to post these wise words onto every new thread about dating a WL. I have respect for these ladies, but I dont daydream about being in a relationship. They are working to make ends meet. Leave it at that. Pay, punt, leave. Do not overcomplicate it
Last time when a WL liked me costed me 2years worth of punting budget in 6months so I quit. Now I only want the girl loves me in the brothel room.
If she likes me, we can do something special in the room.
you're right. Normally a WL shouldn't be seen as a dating opportunity even if she's really nice, attractive, etc. We're not into some sort of fricking "Pretty Woman" movie. Yes, one out of 10,000 punters may find the woman of his life in a brothel but chances are so low I understand it's not worth it.
In the case of WLs who do diamond service (involving BBBJ and CIM) which can expose them to various STIs and then pass on to you as her partner or boyfriend via kissing or unprotected sex, the thought of dating such girl knowing that you can't have unprotected sex with her in the same way you would do with a girlfriend who is in an exclusive relationship with you and requiring to be tested regularly for STIs would put you off in the first place. Why go through all this trouble just to be with a WL?
Meeting women in clubs or bars is not for everyone. Meeting women online can be frustrating as well as time consuming and costly. What do some guys do? Some guys believe by having direct access to women sexually will allow them to form a relationship after paying for a service. Wrong! Think again.
I think everyone’s situation is different:
Some guys simply can score very easily and probably have a few girlfriends (none steady and exclusive) with whom he could have sex at will , if you are in this category, good luck to you, enjoy and stay safe ......... haha
Does it mean that you won’t go punting ? Not necessarily , because there are still times when you are in need and no one else is available for one reason or another and rather than just picking up a random one night stand which you would have no problem getting but just couldn’t be bothered, Yeap, punting would be an easy and effortless way to have instant satisfaction!
Any one else with lesser scoring opportunities and capabilities and success rates, well, you all know where you stand in this. And then all those married population.......... haha
If you treat a WL nicely and with respect and you aren't dirty, smelly, hideously deformed, morbidly obese etc then chances are she will like you ... as a customer, and she will want you to come back and see her again ... as a customer.
It's pretty simple really.
If you want to be more than a customer, then that's when the problems begin.
I can't fault your logic, most rational individuals would agree with you wholeheartedly.
To answer the question as to why anyone would risk dating such a girl? I would say it's because they can drain your balls like no other on a daily basis. Once you find yourself in such an arrangement it's really hard to turn down. Really, really, fucking hard.