I recently started thinking about the total budget for a single girl.
As someone who rarely repeats these days, this hasn't been an issue for me this year. But when recalling experience with some of my favorite MLs (3 years ago), I can't help kicking myself for not being more prudent with the spending.
The downside of having a favorite girl whom you keep seeing is that you tend to get numb with the money spent on her: as the experience is so unique and satisfying, you feel she's worth all the money spent. I certainly fell into that trap years ago and wish I'd been more objective and cut the spending on a single girl by at least 75%, and used some of the savings to try other girls instead.
The key point I learned is that: no matter how pretty her face is, how perfect her tits and/or pussy is, or how well she seemed to connect with you, after a certain number of sessions, you will get bored, and then start getting a sense of regret. Why I didn't foresee things would come to this?!
Having some perspective and planning at the beginning of seeing a great girl (whom you want to see multiple times) would be helpful in reducing the amount of regret you'll feel later.
I'm writing all this down because I realized that I'm starting to fall into the trap of having a new favorite...hope reason/logic will beat emotion this time around.
It depends what your objective is... is it to sample as many girls as possible? or is it to develop some sort of connection and thus a better/more enriching service? You said it yourself, "as the experience is so unique and satisfying".. I don't think it's anything to regret..? Depends where you set your goalposts. I prefer some sort of connection and relationship, confined to the shop.
But I do know what you mean about the constant battle between reason/logic and emotion. If you read my first post on here about my history with an ML, you will know that I've been through it and came out the other side with fairly well rounded perspective.. But even I still struggle. I started seeing an ML about 8 months ago and then recently started almost exclusively seeing her, because the experience was so good each time. Kept telling myself I've learnt my lesson and can compartmentalise now. And I could, until a particular session a few weeks ago when things got more heated than usual. Then I realised that some form of attachment had suddenly snuck up on me and punched me in the face. So I will be seeing others now to get her out of my head. Get under to get over!
With more experience you'll realise that chasing connection with a ML is just an illusion. Dont be desperate. Get rapport, have fun for a few visits, then move on
I am with you there. I had a connection with an ML and seeing regularly. Costing me a fair bit of money. I have seen others since with great experiences for a lot cheaper but still seem to return to the original one.!! Need to think with the brains
However great a girl is I always get bored of her eventually.
I like the new girl chase.
Is it a bird, is it a plane, no its Punterman. Always seeking out good value bbbj, DFK, DATY for $150 hr in the Western Sydney brothels.
Sorry, how is it a 'chase if you are paying for it? I am struggling to understand this concept? You pay your cash and you root. Where is the chase?
Thrill of the chase is finding a WL who has fun with you
To clarify, the experience was super good at the time and i didn't feel bad about spending a bundle on those few gems.
but as time went on, i started to see them from different perspectives: lies were found, true intentions came to light, the darker side of them surface.
then i felt a surge of regret…
thats why im trying best to keep both expectations and expenditures within limit with my current favorite.