Originally Posted by
bigfatkilo
This is the normal narrative of things.
Whilst it is nice to hear basil22 story... the fact of the matter is, from the very start, it was based on sex, money, transactions etc. Doesn't mean it isn't genuine or real, but the fact is,
a) you were there for sex, happy to cheat yourself also.
b) she is able to put money above all else (not judging her btw), but fact is, where theres more money, theres opportunity.
they all lie, they all cheat, they all know how to manipulate men.
we too, we men, also lie, cheat and manipulate them and the situation for our on goals.
it might be genuine, feel good, be safe, be mutual, but remember always, it is a transaction (both short and long term). Translations have conditions, trust issues, jealous, they aren't unique, hav an expiry date, and most of all, have power (supply demand) imbalances
Im talking about the definition of transactions generally, eg business, same thing is happening with WL ml relationships
Cynical yes
True, matter of opinion
Have I been burnt and hurt ? Yes
Solution= compartmentalize and separate. And be pragmatic as possible