I think you were probably on the right track with the 50/50 assumption? Just not that many people have commented so far. I do wonder how the ratio would cut along cultural lines.
FYI I’m a 32 yr old in a long term relationship, and have recently started feeling really guilty about my punting, especially as I’ve started going to FS (was only a massage guy befor) and that usually includes BBBJ and sometimes DATY. I decided today, funnily enough before I read your post, that it’s time to get my head back in the game and start being more responsible. That means stay covered! It’s just not fair to our partners
I will get tested on Monday and I’m kinda dreading it tbh ��