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    Why do incels make their life so difficult?

    Is it because they’re shy or just naive?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sillafest View Post
    Is it because they’re shy or just naive?
    Punting is the answer !

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    Isn't an incel just a beta male? Nothing new there
    Never understood why like minded males who cant get a root, would group together in mutual sympathy. When I first heard about the trend, its hard to feel any sympathy. These males are articulate, computer literate, but are misogynists. To make things even more illogical, these entitled men then think the fault is that of society and women; rather than their own shortcomings

    Entitled embittered, often well educated single men. Usually well clothed and well fed pizza eating keyboard warriors.
    Hardly the most vulnerable in society. Hard to feel sorry for them

    As Ahlungor says, they need to take a trip to Sydney and lose their virginity. Its far more fun joining a punters forum than crying in despair on a beta male bonding forum. Pathetic actually.

    Its a Generation Z thing

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    WTF is a " Incel " ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by halfway View Post
    WTF is a " Incel " ?
    Simple.

    Its a male who's last seen or touched pussy was when they came out of their mum.
















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    A heterosexual male who holds a hatred for females because they cant find one who will be interested in a relationship in them.

    So pretty much a perpetual beta male yes

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    In most cases they have mental health issues, are on the spectrum, have low self esteem etc.
    They are drawn to the incel culture because they relate to it and gives them a sense of belonging to something or meaning.
    But it is not the solution to their problems and actually just makes them even more dysfunctional, depressed, angry etc.
    Subcultures are not the answer; emo, goth, metal etc - they just make people even worse and reinforce all their negative emotions and feelings.
    The best hope for a happy and meaningful life is good old fashioned things like friends, family, exercise, pets, healthy food, work, sport, hobbies, loving committed relationships, creative/artistic activities, community involvement, helping others, outdoor activities etc.
    Withdrawal from society is not the answer.
    Rampant hedonism, drugs, sex, parties, alcohol, shopping, consumerism, gambling, gadgets etc also are not the answer.
    These things give a few minutes of pleasure and escape but then misery, depression, emptiness, anger, angst etc follow and last until the next few minutes of pleasure and escape, and so the cycle continues as you sink deeper and deeper down the whirlpool of emptiness, meaninglessness, angst, depression, anxiety, self hate etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rooter View Post
    In most cases they have mental health issues, are on the spectrum, have low self esteem etc.
    They are sad and sorry cases.
    They are drawn to the incel culture because they relate to it and gives them a sense of belonging to something or meaning. Withdrawal from society is not the answer
    Well said. The problem is that Generation Z grow up thinking social media is a necessary lifestyle choice. In fact, unless you know the dangers, social media is a massive hazard. The average male brain doesnt mature until age 22-25. For some of us, the male brain never matures
    Social media is the new smoking habit of this new decade. Trendy but deadly if the dangers arent understood. We've seen young children suiciding, pedophiles grooming ypuths, depression triggered by social media, and people being constantly immersed in silly often misleading health fads. 'Wellness' is the new bullshit term used by untrained people giving medical advice. The term needs to be banned urgently, as it is meaningless
    Siloing of thought, echo chambers of like minded people, silencing of dissenters, all goes to create distorted and incorrect opinions. Vaccination has proven itself for decades, but it just takes a few influential but unqualified nincompoops to create misinformation and unnecessary measles epidemics

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    Quote Originally Posted by F0x View Post
    Simple.

    Its a male who's last seen or touched pussy was when they came out of their mum.
















    Real answer:

    A heterosexual male who holds a hatred for females because they cant find one who will be interested in a relationship in them.

    So pretty much a perpetual beta male yes

    Wow, who makes this shit up and gives it a label ? sounds like they should be in looney asylum.

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    Through my experience the more attractive a woman is the more nicer she is. Of course I could be biased!

    I mean yeah if you can improve your shortcomings or being the beta male then do it but it still adds to the idea that women are hard and difficult to be with, when in fact it’s just emphasis on women’s idealistic side. Women also have a compassionate side and are really only ever judging more so when it comes to looking for longer relationships, however in the short term almost anything goes. Men are the opposite when it comes to longer relationships we just go with it but thinking about shorter relationships we’re the most idealistic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by halfway View Post
    WTF is a " Incel " ?
    Involuntary Celibate.

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    WTF is a beta male? All these fucking labels are making it so hard for younger people today..just go out and fuck !!!

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    What the fuck a group of people banding together cause they can get laid

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kevsbrah View Post
    What the fuck a group of people banding together cause they can get laid
    🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    Dying man!

    Touche

    Quote Originally Posted by kingwally View Post
    WTF is a beta male? All these fucking labels are making it so hard for younger people today..just go out and fuck !!!
    We've always had labels Wally, (jocks, nerds, hippies, gangsters, hillbillies etc)

    These last generations have been making things hard on themselves, through social media, portraying perfect lives, unachievable good looks, and with that the pressure to have the same.

    Sucks but thats the way the world is swinging my friend

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    Quote Originally Posted by F0x View Post
    🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    Dying man!

    Touche



    We've always had labels Wally, (jocks, nerds, hippies, gangsters, hillbillies etc)

    These last generations have been making things hard on themselves, through social media, portraying perfect lives, unachievable good looks, and with that the pressure to have the same.

    Sucks but thats the way the world is swinging my friend
    Its funny that most people have always had ordinary lives. When did it become a good idea to post unrealistic photos that imply people are living extraordinary lives.
    Often the most fancy lifestyles being posted and portrayed, are financed by drug money

    I think its literally brain damaging and soul destroying for young people to be following other peoples lifestyles online. Ive never had the time or interest to bother, and therefore I dont have anxiety nor depression as a result of these sick sites

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    Incel are entitled and grandiose look up narcissism
    Narcissism and being highly functional on the spectrum can look similar, especially in relationships ....

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    finally, after seeing that word incel all over the forums/facebook someone has finally explained what it fucking means lol

    and who the fuck makes these words ??? lmaoo

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    I dont understand Generation Z. If you are so weak you cant get a root, even from your own hand, I wouldnt face the world and admit this, let alone revel in being in involuntary celibate (incel)

    I suppose the positive side, is that these loners, who unfortunately see women as aliens, have their little support group so they dont self harm, or resort to using a firearm

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    Quote Originally Posted by retrospect View Post
    The young men of today are very hard dove by in my opinion. Young men require a clear path to achieve honour and respect in their society. Society has failed recently to provide this. Instead, young men are told they are irredeemable regardless of their behaviour.

    The incel phenomenon and mgtow movement etc is a reaction to this. It much more nuanced than just a bunch of beta males who can't get laid.
    I respect your opinion. But you will find it hard convincing society at large, that a group of mainly white, educated males, are deserving of sympathy.

    Many people feel hard done by. My guess is that white males are the least hard done by group, unless they were born into poverty or abused when young (which are the minority).
    And dont forget, this incel group blame to varying extents, women, for their plight. This is the pathetic part.

    There are many many other truly disadvantaged groups in the community, including indigenous people in generational poverty, and women suffering ongoing domestic abuse. These are just a few examples of the real disadvantaged in our society (US and Australia) who truly have real life grievances

    Not being able to get a root ? (involuntary celibates is what this group calls themselves). Hardly compares

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    Quote Originally Posted by retrospect View Post
    It's interesting that you think that incels are white.
    Fair enough.

    This is by no means authoritative, but Wikipedia's description shows them to be a pathetic group of weak men

    'Discussions in incel forums are often characterized by resentment, misogyny, misanthropy, self-pity, self-loathing, racism, a sense of entitlement to sex, and the endorsement of violence against sexually active people
    The American nonprofit Southern Poverty Law Center described the subculture as "part of the online male supremacist ecosystem" that is included in their list of hate groups

    Estimates of the overall size of the community vary greatly. They are considered mostly male and heterosexual, but sources disagree on the subject of ethnic makeup'

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel

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