Personally I want a quick fuk no complications.
There's no point being a virgin until you meet your ideal girl. As you said, girls will come up with all excuses these days not to get involved in serious relationships because they want to experience life and try out with a few guys before they decide to get steady or settle down. Life is short. Go enjoy life. Have fun but be safe in your adventures.![]()
Personally I want a quick fuk no complications.
One of my mates at work has said to me 'why would you pay for it?'
He's a bit of a playboy at work. Handsome etc. He has a girlfriend and has fucked a few of the sales girls.
It's put him in a lot of shit though and he's constantly working to try and keep himself out of trouble.
He told me he was once on a date at a restaurant with his GF and one of the girls he fucked from work sat at the table next to him. FML. Said he was sweating bullets. Luckily she didn't say anything.
HELL NO. Not worth the effort. Especially with people at work, or from your industry.
With punting. You just walk in, choose a pretty girl. Put the money down. Pump away until you're balls are thoroughly drained. Leave. Go home. Everybody is happy.
Haha, I feel like I should weigh in here... I was a (pretty unsuccessful) male model when I was a bit younger, and I've kept in decent shape and looked after myself since then. I have never had trouble picking up girls in bars or hotels... or at work, work events, in the street, on trains... basically anywhere.
BUT, that means coffee dates, lunches, dinners, deep connections. I used to love that, but if I was honest with myself, I was there to get laid, and after a while being a total sociopath and pretending to be interested in somebody, or a bunch of bodies at the same time, makes you feel like a dirtbag.
When I punt, I get options, I get convenience, I get CONFIDENTIALITY (real important), and I get to get my rocks off with somebody who knows exactly what the deal is. Then, when I'm done, I get on with my day, no checking in, no phone calls, no follow up, no guilt.
Punting isn't great. It's a bit sleazy, a bit dirty, and it's definitely not something to write home to mum about. But, if there's an itch to scratch, at least an ML or WL knows she's there to scratch it. And isn't that a little bit kinder than picking up a girl, talking her into bed (and sometimes, into cheating on her boyfriend or husband), leading her on and not intending on seeing her after that?
That's why I punt.
Easy way to avoid trouble when you want to see someone and in a relationship
I've never had trouble picking up really good sorts at clubs, bars and restaurants. I have a pretty good strike rate with the Asian ladies. I am relatively good looking for a wog and I do have a bit of coin behind me which I do not flaunt. However I do seem to struggle in getting the same level of interest from girls in the massage space. Not sure how to interpret this.
Long story short...the times when girl I liked and I were single and available never really matched...and never been able to find love now that she's married. The WL visits keep my needs fulfilled I guess