Reply With QuoteI think refractory period varies from person to person but some guys in porn can cum and fucking continuously (no downtime). Stopped after 2-3 times ..that’s insane !
This is the world of punters where you can say anything anonymously so here goes....
No shame in hiding the fact that I'm having difficulty coming the second time by intercourse and therefore most of the time opt of HJ after feeling tired/exhausted.
A little background on my story
I wait around 5-7 mins after coming the first time before I try to go the second round, but don't always immediately do that. Sometime I'll go down on her for 5-10 mins or so and then start. But even though I'll feel exhausted and out of breadth. But I will be erect throughout it's just I'll have a bit of pain in my legs. I'm not very experienced with sex, and truth be told, I've only ever had sex with a WL. I'm in my mid 20's and a bit overweight.
I understand that losing weight and exercise would help. I guess what I'm asking is if you've experienced this and dealt with this successfully? How did you deal with this, was there a strategy involved? Do you do any exercises in particular to get your stamina up? Any other tricks would most certainly help.
Thanks in advance guys
P.S .. not intending to take any meds
I think refractory period varies from person to person but some guys in porn can cum and fucking continuously (no downtime). Stopped after 2-3 times ..that’s insane !
You can try kegel exercises to help you last longer. Essentially it's the muscle you use to stop yourself peeing mid stream.
So many factors at play. I sometimes take ages to get even 1 shot off. The more you over think it the harder it can be to achieve, so really just relax and enjoy the experience and if it has to be by hj then enjoy that experience to its max too. If there's something on your mind you want to try ask the girl. The last fs girl I saw got me away twice in 45 mins and said next time if I booked an hour she thought she could get three out of me, she just knew how to push my button. I know for me that when a girl kisses it gets me more involved and hotter, same goes for massage too. Don't be shy about things that may turn you on either like using the mirrors for better views, trust me you aren't the first guy that's enjoyed looking at the mirror while going doggy on a perfect body like the star of your own porn movie.
Hope that helps.
Don't get hung up about it bro.
Sometimes you come once, sometimes you come twice, and sometimes you don't come at all.
It doesn't really matter. It's just punting. Relax and Enjoy!
A little while ago my gf was over (daughter having sleepover at friends house). She wanted to see how many times we could do it. Over a few hours we did 5 before we went to sleep, then once more in the morning. Not bad fpr an old fella.
Chemistry with the partner is a big factor for me, if there's nothing there then yeah I can find it hard to back up.
That's exactly it. Relax and let whatever happens happen.Originally Posted by rooter
Got the same issue with the second shot as well. Gets hard to stay hard when inside and usually need a helping hand. God I wish I had a button to unload at will.
What is msog...please advise
I find if you relax and focus on the girl's pleasure, you can last much longer. When you focus on your own pleasure, you come faster
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A couple of WLs I have spoke to about this reckons it's just a matter of practice. I often wonder whether they are scouting for return business or they are on to something. I am beginning to think they could be right.
Until I started punting 7 years ago in a regular or semi-regular fashion, most of my previous sexual experience was obviously with my partner. i maybe had sex with a dozen or so women before I met her and apart from an office affair and a break up for 3 months, it was only her. Apart from the odd occasion early on, we would have sex and it would pretty much finish when I ejaculated. My mind and body have been conditioned over time that once I have shot my load, that's it.
It’s really hard a second shot. I really want it but I feel pressure that I might not get it up and that makes it worse. A lot of the time second shots are usually a handjob/ blow job.
There was a few girls that got me a second shot from sexy and it was Tiffany from ginza, Lily from 42 and a Japanese girl from 42 I can’t remember her name but she’s not there yet.
Try to save some stamina during your first action and also try to find best posture that pleasures you the most.
Thanks for all the advice guys :-)
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So, does that mean you nominate where you are going to blow on her and you aim for there?
Hopefully you can aim for different spots and not the same one.
Most of my enjoyment is what goes on before the first shot!! Lots of sexy DFK, fondling, DATY and an explosive finish ...perfect. Expectations met & no performance anxiety for me
I didnt have any issue with MSOG when i was younger, but 1st round was quite short..5mins?? But 2nd round was longer obviously...but after i turned 30's i noticed it is taking longer in my 1st round 10mins?? And 2nd round just would not cum unless girl is hot...these days MSOG has been deleted from my life...no way...even the 1st round i cannot feel anything...
But if i do it with the girl who is really hot and exactly know my bttons than i have no issues.
IMO it is connection with the gal... I noticed wls these days are not that desperate as before..
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