Of course she is/was! Your mother never used emotional blackmail, on you, your father, siblings etc? Not necessarily with dubious intentions but still would have done so. Our mothers were not born at 35 with an apron and sensible hair style baking cookies. They were single, they dated, they may even have had their share of one night stands etc, they used their looks, appeal, smarts, etc to their advantage as any person would.
And manipulation is not necessarily a bad thing, it happens all the time, sometimes people manipulate us in OUR best interests.
But yeah I know that's not what dot was referring to.
I used to be a regular with a ML. When she was single, she would let me dfk, finger and daty. However, when she got a boyfriend, she would let me know this is the last session that she let me do all these stuffs and next time I visit her, I can only get nhj. Her boyfriend was her clients so I believe she had communicated with the guy and let him know she would draw boundaries with other guys. I heard they have been together for a good while, not sure if they’re still going on now though. I guess they can only stay that long if they are transparent with each other.
Wait till her earning are down. I have that before with an ML one day telling me she don't do DATY, Bbbj because she have a BF. So I see other ml at the she work place after a few months one day only she was available she say come I service you like before. I ask her what change, her earning gone downhill I just say "yes" and smile.
Thought better of this post.
I know. I know. I’f I was a fighter not a lover I’d have been in the gym - not the brothel!
It figures, the kind of guys who’d sign up for this arrangement aren’t likely to be a great catch… who the heck would risk half their assets, super etc for chump change and some ass unless they’re broke to begin with
I once hear about this story about WL/ML paying citizens to get to a long a winding process to become a resident
As a woman builds up a 'book' of regulars, the need to satisfy any particular one of them becomes proportionately less. She can choose to give a fuller service to less clients who pay more, and cut the service to the less profitable clients. You could either offer her more money or give her a break for a month or three. Your phrase "hundred times" indicates that you are pretty much under her control - not good strategy perhaps.