Think of it the other way around rockbreaker. There are many men out there that treat the ML's like shit. They go into shops and when ML doesn't want to give them same level of service as has been reported on here, then they can get shitty and maybe even violent towards ML. Just because one person gets a certain level of service, it doesn't mean that the ML will want to give the next punter the same service. Giving too much info does more harm than good. Many, many times a ML has moved on because of reviewers on here have shared too much.