I am Caucasian, don't speak a word of Chinese. I rarely have a bad punt, when I first meet the girl I try to put her at ease from the start... ie help her with the towels, set up the bed... make appropriate noises to show your appreciation of her beauty. Often if there is music in the background, walk up to her, give her a bit of a twirl and get her giggling. Treat her like you would treat any other woman. (Mind you, this backfired on me when the girl was very young... a real princess.. she actually got so angry with me for making her cum!! I was like... WTF?? 1 hour session cut off at 35 min...)...