A boring life , advice wanted ...

[Mi Goreng]

That's true ...... I so wanting to write an AR .. But if I wrote , sigh ... It will be a sad one thanks lungor and all the buddies who understand me ......

[Mi Goreng]

我最親愛的，你過得怎麼樣？

[chandra_man1]

[QUOTE=Niceman 123;16475
The odds with WLs are close to zero.[/QUOTE]

If u have $10M in the bank earning interest i think you have at least 90% chance of winning the heart of a WL. i just need another 9.8M

[chandra_man1]

I think for the fulltime hardcore WL that will work for over 2 years it be hard to get a relationship with them. But for those on short term assignment like the premium escorts u might have a better chance as they only do the work for like a month or 2 & then get back to their normal life as if nothing had happened.

[Max Impact]

I think for the fulltime hardcore WL that will work for over 2 years it be hard to get a relationship with them. But for those on short term assignment like the premium escorts u might have a better chance as they only do the work for like a month or 2 & then get back to their normal life as if nothing had happened.

I am hoping that is the case too chandra_man1 for this brothers' situation.

[cisco]

If I have $10M in my bank interest, I think I would still choose somebody other than a WL as gf. There is no point to win a woman's heart by showing her your wealth, you will end up losing money and get depressed. You can buy a woman a certain period of time of her companion with money but she will eventually go. Wealth and money only create opportunities to start a real relationship with woman but in the end, other things do come into play before a long term relationship will last.

WLs are not good choice for a long term relationship because their training and experience won't make them feel for men, I guess.

10000% agreed and the rigth answer ,.....

[cisco]

Sound to me like bro mi has falling in love with some wl..

me too,.....is that rigth mi goreng?

[project_manager006]

Mi Goreng - you sound like me about 5 years ago. I drifted through life aimlessly, frequenting brothels and casinos. I didn't go to brothels for sex, I just wanted some girl to talk to. And I didn't always go to the casino for money. I found it a soothing way to pass time.

It then occurred to me that I probably suffered depression. Have you ever thought about that?

I'm not saying punting/gambling causes depression, but it certainly helps facilitate it. In other words, it almost creates the perfect environment for it to be developed.

I found that setting myself goals (career goals, fitness goals) really helped me get my life back on the straight road. I know people here have already given you the same advice, but I strongly urge you to not only consider it, but to try it out. Hell, if you really need a gym buddy, pm me and we'll go. Once you get into it, it can become a healthy addiction, a healthy life.

The other thing is, I realised I needed my friends. They are my support group. I can vent to them about anything, and they can be there to help if I ever need it. During my punting/gambling years, I strayed away from my friends, isolating myself, and in hindsight I see that this was a bad idea. Not only that, but in the process I also abandoned another friend, who now hangs around with some shady people. I can only wonder how I would've prevented that had I been around instead of wasting money and my life away.

Your initial question was, is there more to life? That's what I've been asking myself all those years. I think once you start travelling around, you will find the answer is yes. If you are looking for something after that, check out some TAFE courses, you'll be surprised at what you can learn. Alternatively, go to Bunnings and try to do some home renovations yourself. It's always good, as a man, to know how to fix things like your home and car.

Take care bro, and keep us updated.

[IExperiment]

Mi Goreng - you sound like me about 5 years ago. I drifted through life aimlessly, frequenting brothels and casinos. I didn't go to brothels for sex, I just wanted some girl to talk to. And I didn't always go to the casino for money. I found it a soothing way to pass time.

It then occurred to me that I probably suffered depression. Have you ever thought about that?

I'm not saying punting/gambling causes depression, but it certainly helps facilitate it. In other words, it almost creates the perfect environment for it to be developed.

I found that setting myself goals (career goals, fitness goals) really helped me get my life back on the straight road. I know people here have already given you the same advice, but I strongly urge you to not only consider it, but to try it out. Hell, if you really need a gym buddy, pm me and we'll go. Once you get into it, it can become a healthy addiction, a healthy life.

The other thing is, I realised I needed my friends. They are my support group. I can vent to them about anything, and they can be there to help if I ever need it. During my punting/gambling years, I strayed away from my friends, isolating myself, and in hindsight I see that this was a bad idea. Not only that, but in the process I also abandoned another friend, who now hangs around with some shady people. I can only wonder how I would've prevented that had I been around instead of wasting money and my life away.

Your initial question was, is there more to life? That's what I've been asking myself all those years. I think once you start travelling around, you will find the answer is yes. If you are looking for something after that, check out some TAFE courses, you'll be surprised at what you can learn. Alternatively, go to Bunnings and try to do some home renovations yourself. It's always good, as a man, to know how to fix things like your home and car.

Take care bro, and keep us updated.

Good answer and its been said before a few times if you wanted pro help go get proper counseling there so many people here already mention to you about going out with you if this is not what you wanted seek otherway before you go deeper into trouble.

[KingMark]

Mate....try start praying to God??? it might take some time but eventually He will show u directions...He has made plans for every single one of us...

I will pray for u tonite....stay strong...n have faith in Him....

[Mi Goreng]

Thank you guys !
Mr BMW , mr Cisco , yes you guys are right , I think I fall in love with a Wl , we only communicate through mail and everyday I will be constantly checking my mail from my phone , but sigh , there was always no reply. Brother here are mostly correct , there is so less of a percentage to find a real love and relationship with a Wl.

Mr project manager , thanks so much for your encouragement ! What you all mentioned and did was exactly what I am doing! I went to casino to only kill time , I went to brothel to just talk with girls , I go to outfall agencies just to see the girl I like and treat her coffee and cakes.. I tried to a avoid friends who really care and helped me , and alwyas kept myself away from others when i had this kind of lifestyle. When I get back from my holiday , I Might PM you and might go to gym together .. That is something i really want to do but I never got the friends or support to go with ..

King mark , yea today by all of a sudden my friend from Brisbane ask me to accompany her to go church with another friend , and yes I go church but I don't have the courage to say I'm a Christian , today sermon's was spot on all about me and my fcked up life ... Asking me to have a change in life ...

I think it's time I move on , next week I will be heading home for 2 months , by that me ... I hope god has plans or me and reshape me for what he plan... I'm not sure should I say this or not , but seriously punting and gambling is just hollowing my heart .... I don't feel the urge , the thrill or anything anymore...

Time will tell and also will ease the pain .....

[Mr bmw]

Hopefully u will meet a nice girl in Indo and forget about the WL here. I've been jkt many times, sooo many pretty Chinese Indo and also punting there's awesome

[samantha]

Boredom is a human state when we look for rest in a struggle against some impediment. "Come to me all of you who are carrying heavy loads and I will gave you rest" says the Lord. Trust in Him.

[wilisno]

Boredom is a human state when we look for rest in a struggle against some impediment. "Come to me all of you who are carrying heavy loads and I will gave you rest" says the Lord. Trust in Him.

" Come to me " I'd rather it was said by you than the Lord, Samantha ! Assuming you're a girl !

[Charlie123]

Im carrying a heavy load too, not sure i can wait til the sabbath for release though

[Mi Goreng]

Morning ... Lately I'm encountering a lot of new things happening in life which I don't even know how what to do ....to be honest I can walk from away from those people as they might harm me by accident or I can try to help them .. But a few more days I will leave this place for a good 2 months so I might not see them in this period of times..

Hi Samantha , welcome to the forum and I'm glad you are in Christ too , it's good to see people like this ,encouraging each other during the good and the bad times ... Hope to hear more from you ..

Bro Charlie and willisno are had bad intention but a good heart ppl , so hopefully the lord will forgive them for what they say ..... Ha

Today is Friday , assuming people will be busy punting so have a good weekend ahead and thanks for all the bro's here giving me encouragement through all these times...

[DarkZero01]

care to share some tips in baccarat j/k
hopefully u will be all good soon and tell us how u went/ punt in your trip.

[Max Impact]

Mi, enjoy your time away. From what you tell me your life is anything but boring. Make a difference to the world. You know how you can.

[cisco]

" Come to me " I'd rather it was said by you than the Lord, Samantha ! Assuming you're a girl !

ha ha hahaha,..........

[Mi Goreng]

Three more days to go , nothing much to do than buying stuff for family and relatives , is there anyone here who knows where to buy and choose dry abalone ? If someone knows please pm or let me know , need to grab some for my grandma.
There's a bit of new challenge in life lately and I hope I will grow strong and help the people who is in need for help. I won't write a lot as if I said something , u clever bros will fix the puzzle up easily as my routine is very standard.

Darkzero , there is no 100% win but for me , I'm just beating the casino edge without getting greedy. That's all .

Good night everyone , SG will be a good place to punt but I might not be ale to do that as I'm living to a very very close friend ....

Ha, I don't think Samantha would like to see me as I'm not a handsome guy or anything. , I'm just an average looking guy with a overweight body.....