Unless you want to get fire, no....
A junior colleague recently ‘graduated’ has commenced work.
Over the last few weeks since she’s started And as the weather warms her attire appears to be far less appropriate for the work place and more akin to that of my favourite ML.
There are other signs that telegraph to me that she Must have worked a few shifts.
Should I ask her?
Unless you want to get fire, no....
How did you come to the conclusion? Leopard print panties visible? Ample supplies of tissues on her desk? The baby-oil scent?
One arm more toned than the other?
Give her $50 and see how she reacts.
You should :
1. Get her phone number
2. Fall in love with her
3. Then when you find out she really does work in a massage parlour you should reach out to the forum for advice on why she gave her number to you and is it OK to fall in love with a girl that works in a massage parlour.
Is it a bird, is it a plane, no its Punterman. Always seeking out good value bbbj, DFK, DATY for $150 hr in the Western Sydney brothels.
I have a better idea...
1. Follow her and take pic and video if confirm if she is WL / ML.
2. Then quietly try to get where she live and family situation.
3. Bang!! Show her what you know... free sex till you drop.
Obviously i mean it as a joke. You are getting in to criminal territory if you do what I said.
She wear g-string like most other girls in Sydney?
Mate, anything to do with a female co-worker, either just flirting or sexually intended will almost always ended in disaster !
What exactly do you expect to get out from this ?
1. If she is indeed a current or ex ML, you try to get some free extras from her by what? blackmailing ?
2. If she is not, only bad things would come out from anything you may attempt !
Worst case, she is indeed still a ML and you went to see her in the shop and got what you want, then the situation will reverse ! she got you by the balls so to speak, you want your other colleagues or family and friends to know that you visit a massage parlour? You may end up having to see her in the shop every week, pay more and get less just to buy her silence.
And if you are in a more senior position at work, then it's even worst, I'm sure you can figure that out yourself ?
is this worth it ?
Friday night drinks then move in for the kill
Nowhere near enough to get to that conclusion. I'd say get her social media account first and then you can maybe close in. Never a guarantee, but a start.
Along with SB mostly indistinguishable.
Update :
I’ve had pause to think further on this and many thanks gents for your thoughtful replies. It’s been a great help. I realise that workplace and sex is a volatile mix , and have had varied experiences.. and I know many of you , from experience or wisdom , caution against ....but remain curious .
Over the last few days had further opportunity to banter with this gorgeous Thai , while making an early coffee , along with Some other colleagues.
The few times any conversation teetered toward what she did during her student days for work , she was vague or mentioned a business in the sector. . I know one of the partners and gave a call. never was such a girl , unless she was ABC .
Work Drinks tomorrow night , so hoping it’s a warm evening and we get to further the conversation. .. no idea what I’m expecting , if anything .
However my spidey senses are tingling... and still getting the I’ve been a ML vibe. Hard to explain .. but wasn’t there a recent thread about been accosted by a ML on a train... don’t you guys ever get that clear feeling ?