Im not sure what the issue is.
On the forums, respect each other, the ladies and understand that words have meaning.
On pms, all is fair excepts threats and making sure you arent communicating with the constabulory etc. if you dont like the way someone communicates with you, clarify, ignore them or block them
Pms should be the lifeblood of this place, until laws get changed and we can discuss things like adults should be able to.