Originally Posted by
manjuice333
Nelly, may I regale you with a tale of my (mis)adventures during the recent lockdown when I had the city and a ML all to myself for months?
If you go back and look around March or so I made some thread with a lame title like heart broken or something like that lol. To summarise, I've been punting for over 10 years and banged tons of good looking girls but never once got attached. Then, unexpectedly, I meet this beautiful Japanese girl in an upmarket (expensive) massage shop. I felt a genuine connection with her instantly and I could tell she liked me because when I touched her she was dripping wet. I'm like wow your pussy is so wet, and she said "cause I like you", I was hooked after that. I saw her like 2 or 3 times then lock down hit, shop shut down and I panicked thinking I'm never going to see this girl again. In desperation I called the shop and asked if the girl could meet me outside at a certain time/place and they were reluctant but said they'd pass the message on. I couldn't believe it when she actually showed up!
We had lunch together and then I saw her almost every day after that for months on end (outside in the real world). It eventually ended due to some personal circumstances and her going back to Japan but I am still in touch with her.
So my advice to you would be that if you like your ML and think there is a possibility of a relationship there I wouldn't be against it simply because she is a ML. I used to think I'd never date/marry a ML/WL but life has a way of changing our perceptions/expectations.
Having said that, if I were to go for a full on relationship with said girl there would have to be a discussion and agreement that at some point if she wants it to work too she's going to have to get another job. But, what harm is there to go on a few dates and get to know each other first? You might find after some time that there's nothing really there after all, in which case no harm done you can both move on. Or, you might find you both really like each other, which will lead to its own challenges.
IMO, if she's meeting up with you outside of work she probably does genuinely like you, at least a bit.
Of course, there are other alternatives to be considered here as well. Maybe she's looking to settle and get out of the business and sees you as potentially someone to do that with. That doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing.. lol I don't know if I'm really selling this whole endeavour here..