Originally Posted by
annndy
Some people are well known liars, saying a lie in order to try and make people think highly of them.
Some people however, do experience things in life like a typical TV drama but choose not to tell it to the world.
I dated a WL a while back. She used to work in a popular shop but wasn't really a popular girl. The problem with her is that because of the amount of money she's making, and this job being her first and only job here in Australia she couldn't grasp the reality that not everyone in this country earns enough money to afford seeing WLs on a daily basis. Her spending habits had also changed from the first day she got into this country so that was the motivating factor for me to end the relationship.
I haven't been in contact with her for a while but I was surprised that although her ads were around (she was doing private during lockdown) but the phone number is inactive. And she actually deactivated her personal WeChat account as well.
It doesn't really matter to me anymore if she still exist or not as I am seeing someone whom I've known for almost 2 year now. If I knew that we're meant for each other at that time I wouldn't have dated that WL.
Dating WLs is probably something I wouldn't repeat if I become single again in the future. WLs are very complicated in nature due to their line of work.
If you really want a girlfriend I'd say go for whoever you connect with, be it WL, ML or normal girls not from these industries. However, remember that all women have similar traits - if they really like you they may open up to you at first then slowly test your patience for a long time before allowing you to progress towards the next step. Those ones I'd avoid are:
- Kisses you on the lips/DFK so passionately even though you've only met for the first time
- non-WLs (MLs & normal girls) that invites you over for sex in a very short period of knowing each other
- talks about sex 80% of the time
- questions your job & income level rather than income stability
- looks down on men who lack some sort of status
My current partner is someone I would call a hidden gem. Till today she wouldn't let me have sex with her but she compensates towards our relationship by giving me NHJ whenever we're together. She may have been an ex-ML, not sure about it though I care less about her past. And for the past year and a half of receiving her special care she actually learned edging - something I will never experience in shops (unless I wasn't lucky enough to find a shop with such service). I'm not sure if she's still a virgin, didn't get the chance to stick my finger in her although she'd let me touch her labia but it's probably her culture to not have sex before marriage just to make sex a special thing only to be enjoyed during marriage.