That to me feels a little like putting too much trust in 'fate'. Learn from mistakes of the past so you are not doomed to repeat them, and when faced with an opportunity don't die wondering.
The good old times more often than not is falsely remembering only the positives and none of the shit that went with it. Usually this is borne out of loneliness, desperation or dissatisfaction with the current situation. That's why punting can be a good brain clearer, after a great session you don't find yourself saying "Yeah, but I wish I was back begging my partner for sex, putting up with nagging, fighting every second night about inconsequential shit and wishing I won Powerball so I could run off to The Bahamas..."
It all depends on the relationship obviously. Generally though you don't break up with someone because you're happy.
There are lyrics to a song which is rather dull, but the chorus starts "There's no aphrodisiac like loneliness" and I guess to an extent it is true.
Some interesting reading and POVs. Kudos to Mr Asiafever and Mr Goldfishman always on the money with some of your thoughts and insights.
Men are physical/logical creatures and are complete amateurs when in comes to emotional stuff. All men experience emotions and feelings but it’s not their default and natural state; and testosterone, logic and physicality is to blame for that.
Women on the other hand are experts and masters when it comes to dealing with emotions and feelings. This is their default and natural state.
So when a guy falls for a woman he falls in balls deep, as this emotional stuff is new, exciting, and unchartered territory for him.
Relationship breakups will generally fuck with a man’s emotional state and psyche; some will take years to mend (and some never mend or mend properly).
After a bad breakup some men will become bitter and resort to acts of stalking, threats, aggression, violence, suicide, murder etc
Why? They will use whatever comes natural to them ie logic, testosterone, aggression, physicality, violence, strength to deal with an emotional problem.
After a breakup women move on very quickly - they are ring masters when it comes to dealing with emotional stuff. You only need to look at the suicidal rates between the sexes to understand that.
Moreover if the woman is attractive she will have way many more options than a man to move on from a relationship and she’s guaranteed there’ll never be a shortage of thirsty beta suitors vying for her attention and affection.
Why is punting important - it gives men an avenue to release unresolved genital tension.
Why is it dangerous - some men confuse paid sex and attention for affection and love.
Keep up the great work lads.
This thread reminds me of Seinfeld Season 5 Episode 1, The Mango.
"Even Harry Houdini couldn't do it, what chance have I got??".
I can confirm that MLs do orgasm. I have been seeing one regularly and we've built up a rapport, which I believe helps.
As Dr Labia Vortex has mentioned some of the signs, the most obvious is wetness, engorged vulva, some shuddering. It would get to a point where she pushes my hand away.
Personally I enjoy the experience a loy more if I know the other person is also enjoying it too. You do what makes you happy (as long as you don't piss off the girl), at the end of the day it is a personal service you are paying for.
"Do you ever get down on your knees and thank God you know me and have access to my dementia?"
But I think this was the episode he was referring to https://youtu.be/fbCZ0kxk2Pw