Originally Posted by
juscruisin58
Its been a couple of years for me, since I'm in a longterm exclusive arrangement.
When I was meeting girls, NO I wouldn't pay for the time, yes I would pick up the tab for dinner or coffee.
I dont think I ever progressed to sex immediately after the first meet.
With my current girl, we had dinner twice at restaurants and on the third occasion we had dinner at mine and she stayed the night, between this we also had a couple of coffee catch ups, and outings.
Be mindful this was my girls first foray into this and it showed, nervous, unsure, and fairly anxious, I actually appreciated this and the fact I had to build trust with her