February is traditionally a great month for the Sugarbabe sites.
A few things that increase the number of women signing up to the platforms:
1. Universities go back and many girls are moving out of home and realising it costs a lot more to enjoy the same lifestyle
2. They've started thinking about where they are going on holiday, or student debt they want to pay off, or the property market they want to get into, or just the latest handbag they want to buy and a friend has suggested going onto a Sugarbabe site
3. January is statistically a month where many relationships end - and girls find themselves trying something new. Like sugar dating.
Hopefully it's a good month for you guys who are thinking of trying it out for the first time.
It's like Monty Python's "The Yorkshire Men"
Found these interesting stats on another forum
Top 10 Sugar Baby Sugar Cities in Australia:
1. Melbourne: 20,547 sugar daddies / 84,797 sugar babies
2. Sydney: 19,086 sugar daddies / 69,745 sugar babies
3. Brisbane: 6,312 sugar daddies / 32,454 sugar babies
4. Perth: 6,913 sugar daddies / 26,371 sugar babies
5. Adelaide: 4,527 sugar daddies / 16,779 sugar babies
6. Gold Coast: 3,099 sugar daddies / 15,794 sugar babies
7. Newcastle: 1,306 sugar daddies / 5,596 sugar babies
8. Canberra: 2,287 sugar daddies / 5,939 sugar babies
9. Wollongong: 572 sugar daddies / 2,195 sugar babies
10. Townsville: 303 sugar daddies / 1,043 sugar babies
Much obliged for the details there Benny.
500 per night/encounter does sound more appealing considering you get the whole package and seems to have higher ROI (return on investment) overall to say 1 WL at 500/h.
Given your need for discretion, what advice would you give to a fellow tinfoil hatter who doesn't even do social media?
Hi Stiffy - I would say that not having social media puts you in a stronger position in terms of discretion.
If you don't have socials, you don't have the risk that something you share with a girl on SA is floating around on social media for them to track you down. If anyone is asking you for your socials, I would not be handing it out. I simply say that I like to keep my SA life and my day to day life quite separate.
If your question is about SA/SDM verification, I've never verified myself on SA or SDM and don't intend to. If someone wants to verify me, they are welcome to meet me in person in a public place over coffee or a glass of wine.
In terms of discretion, I would also say, more broadly, that it's good to have a balanced approach. You don't want to be so private that you are hard work to connect with or the girls never see photos of you. Equally, you don't want to be opening yourself up to scammers. Taking basic precautions are easy - have a video call, meet them in person first, judge by the way the conversation is going whether they sound normal and worth engaging with.
Does that help?
Thanks Benny, all great advice.
Was thinking along the same lines myself.
I'd be happy to upload a pic, just not my face. With reverse image search these days it's too easy to get fired if you work in sensitive industries.
Some alternatives:
1. upload a shot that crops off below your nose. A smile always works
2. Have a shot of you from behind looking out to something in the distance
3. Share full face photos in your private album. Most girls will understand this.
BTW who authored the DIY how too self help sugar daddy dating book , that is being sold on the naked truth (TNT)?
I do seem too recall awhile ago someone here was saying they were.. anyone want too fess up ?
You mean the actual person? I don't know who authored it but I have mentioned it. It's a good book. Helped me to save a lot of money and time on what could have been dud punts.
It’s been a quiet fortnight on Seeking.com with girls locally.
I’m noticing that a lot of profiles are being rehashed and some of the normal cycling of girls that we would see as they pick up a few regulars and go offsite hasn’t happened.
Part of this is Christmas holidays - Sugardaddies and and the girls go away on family holidays and it’s a slow start back. Some of this is the wait for new international talent - the backpackers, students, 20-something working visas.
Sugaring is now very popular in the UK, Europe and Canada and girls who come over know that they have this as a back up plan. Why go work shifts in a brothel or escort for an agency when you can have the flex to get paid for who and when you have sex, while you live your Instagram life at the same time. And you also keep all of the money.
At the same time, I reckon this is a good time to be working out the Sugaring game if you are a guy.
It’s like pre-season training. You need to get match fit on Seeking and work out your game plan, profile, photos, etc.
You could be getting yourself in shape, figuring out how to regularly squirrel some extra cash away, etc.
The best time to prepare is before the flood. Not in it.
Well, i'm really happy with the insights of this post. I never even thought about SBs before this. Wasn't even sure it was an option. From my background the financial markets are gona be a killer, i believe there will be a crash of sorts in the markets, that means more people are gona need help, so if you position yourself in a good way you could do well from it
Even through COVID and the lockdowns and job losses, the girls were not asking for crazy amounts.
One SB student that I see on a PPM basis when I go down to Melbourne I could not see for much of last year as the borders were closed.
She could not work as hospitality in Melbourne was shut. So I would send her $200 a week directly into her bank account. It was no big deal to me.
When we caught up after the lockdowns ended, she confessed that the weekly amount helped keep her going and was a lifesaver that meant she did not have to move back home. It made me realise just how much she appreciated the small gesture.
On my last three trips she has refused to take any money from me.
Sometimes just being a nice guy is enough. You don’t have to be Mr Gym body or Mr Ferrari to score as a Sugardaddy.
I’m going to wait for the next 25% off promo to rejoin SA - Valentines Day I reckon.
Many thanks BennyB for giving us some insight into the markets around Aus.
I'm new to sugar dating. I am going to QLD for a week for a work trip in a couple of weeks. I am keen to test the water there.
How long in advance do you recommend to start communicating with the girls there on SA?
You mentioned it took you a little longer to break into the market in GC and the girls there like to talk a bit more online.
I find the girls responded a bit better in Sydney if you don't beat around the bush too much. Is that not the case in GC?
Waiting for the promos is an excellent strategy - works if you are a SA member. They don't give it out on joining (for those hoping they do)
I usually take membership for one month at a time and then wait for their bots to send me discount vouchers for rejoining.