to be advised in future....
True they may be professionals or would have learnt that they are not going to get more money out of you if they stay longer. They are very strict with their timing. So are some other girls. I had acontact with one whos says she can only spend 2 hours no more. I thought this is back to brothels where the girl has a timer and goes off 10min before the hour finijshed for you to take a shower anb be out.
to be advised in future....
Appreciate the pep talk John. I've changed my profile to help set (more) expectations so-as not to waste time and I've learned from reading these posts to aim for mid-20s etc. My profile and all intro messages I've only proposed a meet-and-greet first, to see if we gel well and minimise the pressure. Glad to hear this is a hazing period but will keep at it till my subscription ends and then back to the ol regular life
Great question - I engage with ones where they have something interesting in their profile (About Me + Seeking) that I can work off. Age is a factor as well and the ones that pop up on the top of my list are early 20s so I may have to be really strict now and look for 24+ like John suggested.
@Heianth Hi mate, with this particular girl it took 2 days until she actually wanted to meet. We took the chat off line and from there she wanted to see photos of me which I send. After looking at my photos she agreed to meet up at the hotel to my surprise.she did cancel on the day that we where suppose to meet due to that time of the month and she was so apologetic about it told me to meet up the following week, which we did last week.
Don’t be discouraged by the lack of engagement, like all the bros mentioned here, the girls usually pick and choose to see who they want to see or are busy with other SD. Just need to be patient if they don’t text back jus keep looking there’s plenty of women in there.
I’ve been in SA for 3 weeks and I only manage to see 1 for meet ups the rest jus bn texting with them. Mind you I’m more looking to the Asian women more except with the current one I’m seeing, she’s an exception due to us clicking.
As long as your upfront to them about yourself and don’t bullshit to them you should be good mate.
Currently I’m texting 3 other girls since yesterday 21-26 age bracket 2 replied back now jus waiting for them to get back to me.
Good question, we’ll for me would be someone that I can click with when msging with them. Asking them to be transparent, honest, discreet and upfront 100% of the time they will be discreet. Ask what they are looking for if they do want to meet up. Eg short/long term arrangement etc. it might not work with everyone though. Just be yourself about it when you do happen to meet the girl, because these girls knows when your bullshitting from miles away.
I’m not the best to ask this type of questions though as I’m only new to this SA game. Bennyb n Riff888 can share more regarding this.
What did she wear to the hotel?
$700 already for first time and one time meet only? is it that abit too much?
upfront about sex thing?
I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.
No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh
Mate you were lucky the girl turned up. I had 2-3 cancellations. Twice was with the same girl. They don’t care if they are meeting you for the first time. I would not book a hotel in advance. Better to find some hotels in advance that are not too expensive and book them online if things are working out. The girl may only spend 2-3 hours in the room. Going for high end hotel is only adding to your total cost. If you are meeting them during the day then au.dayuse.com is a good option. As lot if rooms around $100 for good 5-6 hours are there. There are some hotels like Holiday Inn Potts Point that are till 11pm. Others may offer discounted rates for the full night anyhow like Oaks apartment near darling harbour.
Sounds like an excellent first experience and you both enjoyed it. You need to reflect on how often you want to see her, if it is going to be a regular thing for you both and then what would be a good outcome for both of you. If you feel like it will be ongoing then I would be suggesting something like 3 meet-ups a month for a monthly $1,500 paid fortnightly (for example). This way she gets financial certainty, albeit at a price point that would be more manageable.
It's pleasing to hear that you enjoyed the non-sex part of it. There is something to be said for just enjoying the romance without the relationship.
A lot comes down to how you engage. If you have only been on for a few days, don’t be dispirited. Every interaction is a learning experience.
I tend to favour a patient approach. I was going too fast at the start and making mistakes by burning leads and hooking up with girls who just wanted to fuck and run. The book on Sugarbabes advocated taking a slower approach and with good reason - I changed up the way I engaged and started meeting more interesting women who were not all about the money.
Yes we want to get laid and laid quickly. But think about it from their perspective as well.
Just wondering what success 60+ Guys have had on this? Having the sugar is one thing, converting it is another