A lot comes down to how you engage. If you have only been on for a few days, don’t be dispirited. Every interaction is a learning experience.
I tend to favour a patient approach. I was going too fast at the start and making mistakes by burning leads and hooking up with girls who just wanted to fuck and run. The book on Sugarbabes advocated taking a slower approach and with good reason - I changed up the way I engaged and started meeting more interesting women who were not all about the money.
Yes we want to get laid and laid quickly. But think about it from their perspective as well.