link for teh lazy
https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-a3385fd0ce60
I’ve been browsing the profiles on seeking for fun. A lot of the girls there seem to think that it’s just “Tinder with rich guys in it”. They’re still wanting the same things as a regular GF, only they want money on top of it.
For example the one up here ^. Seeking long term, marriage minded, lol. Why would anyone look for marriage in a place like seeking?
More direct than dating apps.
We know what each other wants.
Girls want money, men want sex.
Some men just want companionship or just some eye candy for an event. There's all sorts.
We've read in this forum that this can lead to long term and happy relationships.
I think you've got a higher chance of a successful long term relationship with a SB then a long term relationship with a WL/ML.
Sent from my GM1910 using Tapatalk
That may be the case, but I still think it's a bit of a joke. I go in there, I find all these girls saying they want "Marriage Minded", "Long Term", "Platonic", etc. It just felt like the Seeking site was about "seeking arrangements" only in name, but inside it's all the same as any other dating app. I reckon Seeking is making a big mistake allowing this usage of their site by the girls, allowing all these tags on their profiles. It's even worse than guys trying to directly solicit sex from the girls. Over time it will just erode the meaning of their existence and they will simply fade away as yet another dating app, and an expensive one at that.
I'm just browsing for now, not (yet) a paying member. I have my reasons. Mainly because my partner satisfies most of my sexual needs (except for the punting "habit"!), and some other personal life reasons. It all makes me kind of lazy to lift a finger to go through the whole shebang again!
Hi Riff888 is this girl with glasses. I also came across this profile and she quickly moved to Kik. Then she asked for 3000 as allowance. So I suggested ppm. She comes back and says ok 150 for a coffee meet. Which I declined and she ended the conversation. Did you meet her and she ask for money. She does not look that attractive in her profile pic.
Would be interested to know how was your experience for the coffee date.
Wow, i really should get into this sb tbing.
Sounds like a very good place to find young ladies to fuck.
Which seems to have more vfm than most wl/ml.
Havent read all of the posts/replies.
But my main questions would be:
-so you can basically just meet the sb every now and then and do what you want and agree on? Ill prolly just wanna fuck and play with her using toys for hours
-how much of work does it need to start and maintain having a sb?
-typically you get more time fucking or enjoying her body than shops, pricewise?
-feels more amateurish and gfe?
Sent from my ASUS_I001DC using Tapatalk
Yes sounds like her although I didn't pay her for the coffee meet, just the coffee.
It was raining and we were walking around under the umbrella, she did get close and is open to intimacy.
We haven't discussed financials yet but $3k a month is way too high. Especially when she's not really that attractive. She's got a great body and is tall though.
Sent from my GM1910 using Tapatalk
Id recommend kik if it werent for the suggestive ads.
Thanks for the reply. Maybe she was more considerate to you. With the girls in the younger age group I did not have much luck. Most of them want online-only and want to share pics and videos. Most of these get banned in a couple of days.
I thought she was also one of them and I was abrupt.
I had a couple of question to the guys who are more expereinced on the Seeking Arrangement.
First is on the girsl who say they wont be intimate until they know you. This is fine and I would not mind investing my time as it may give more of a girlfriend experience once they open up. BUt most of these girls want $200-$300 just to meet you. I have have only gone on one of these meetings where the girl was happy with a gift. We met for breakfast and it was really nice haveing a chat. I had left the gift in the car to only offer her if things go allright. We had good chat over breakfast and got to know her. Its beeen 2-3 week and I have been busy and not gone for the second meeting. My question is how to you guys hadnle girls who want to meet for platonic dates but want 200-300 for it.
Secondly just want to know the girsl you have been chatting on the site. Once you move to the WhatsApp or phone number how much messaging you should do. I feel I send too many as my intnetions is to build a connection for regular meets. I find before you have met them the girls engage in messaging actively. But after you had the meeting and sex although they really enjoy also specially if you have taken them for a nice dinner and drinks. But the dont message as frequently. Currently there is one young girl who chats regularly. I thought I ask what was the eticate is for messaging.
Thanks guys still enjoying the SA experience. I met a curvy girl in Canberra and she was a nyphomaniac. With the Kamagra pills I have been able to perform like a porn star ahaha. Then I met a girl from GC who is Sydney for business. She says she is a wedding photographer and only activates her account when tyravelling. She was something, what a girl. I am hoping we can meet again when I am in GC next week. Fingers corssed.
Cheers,
had 2-3
Don’t pay for just the meetup, unless you have too much money to spend.
Message her if that’s what you like and you think she likes to as well. Otherwise, they would think you are too needy and looking for a gf.
We all want a bit of connection and someone to talk to. That’s perfectly normal.
On the messaging part - I look at as tit for tat. If they aren't responding I ain't sending.
Don't want to come across as needed or desperate, I definitely don't want a girl to be like that with me forcing me to always be on my phone (which my wife will notice as odd).