Originally Posted by
BLEPSICHUNGUS
I would hardly say im the most attractive man on earth but i do remain fit and like to take care of myself. Its definatley easyish for me to come by sex with dates and sex from friends and I usually fuck 2-3 girls concurrently at work and parties most of the time but i dont like the effort and BS associated with dating or clubbing to obtain sex. Not to mention the insane cost of associated with going out for dates or clubbing in the hopes of sex.
In my head i also would rather save the money and blow it on myself as a treat. Heres how i do the math in my head for dating and why i prefer punting even as a reasonably attractive man:
Typically most girls generally dont fuck on the first date unless your dealing with a more slutty girl. But im speaking more so professional women with careers etc. Usually speaking from my experience most girls will kiss but sex isnt on the table at least for 2-4 dates.
Each one of these dates isnt free, its costs money. You start off with getting ready for the date. Usually if punt, i have a shower i pop on a hoodie, some footy shorts, a little deoderant and spend $3 on the train getting to the brothel. I walk in, unload and leave. But if have to get ready for a date, i have to generally drive which means $10 in petrol, the tread on my tires etc. Then you pick up the girl and get some drinks. Generally speaking girls will get you to cover the bill but sharing also works. Lets say you buy 3 rounds of drinks = 6 drinks total. If each drink is $10 thats $30 you spent on yourself and potentially another $30 for her, not to mention you didnt even get to get drunk and you harmed your body for no reason. Add in paying for dinner thats around $50 and youve already racked up close to $100 for that date. Multiply that by 2 and your looking at a quarter grand just to have mediocre sex once!
The alternative math is for clubbing/bars:
Lets say you start pre-drinking with your friends, Lets say you only bring a six pack of pre-mix drinks + a couple of extras, Thats around 30 dollars. Then because every is so drunk you all share an uber to the club. If you take an uber to the city alteast for me that $40 and if thers 4 friends that $10 a person. Then if you want to go to mainstream club like IVY in sydney your looking at $10-$30 minimum to enter.
Then you start by buying a couple drinks for your self and each drink in a club is at least $15. Thats $30 just for you. Then if you try and chat up a girl shes not gonna leave the club without a couple drinks, add an extra 30 right there from your wallet. If you split an uber with her back to your place thats $20 give or take. Add all that up your looking at around $120 mimimum for a big night out. And all of that and you may still not even fuck.
The last thing i'd also add in about going for a punt even though you can pick up girls is that punting releives that urge and desparation to fuck. Women love to be the gate-keepers of sex and hate desperation!
If i punt more often i'm less likely to try extra hard to get a woman and therefore the demand vs supply for sex equals out because i dont need a woman to have sex with me, i can just punt instead