Originally Posted by
DayMan69
I was you 15 years ago. My first was accidental in that i walked in to a massage parlour late afternoon after doing the city to surf that morning. The girl flipped me over and whispered 'do you want extras?'. The rest, as they say, is history.
My advice is to start small. NHJ in a massage place. Try other shops, other girls. On your 2nd or 3rd visit with a girl you click with, she may offer FS. BYO condom and make it happen.
FS shops for me are slightly daunting. The girls are pros, they know their way around a cock for sure but it can be just a race to get you off asap. Also, MLs seem younger and hotter, certainly in the shops i go to.
MLs for me are a more erotic experience. Especially when you find a regular you like.
Think of the experience like building a pyramid. You'll try 5-6 girls, whittle that to 2-3, then just 1. Then go start another pyramid somewhere else.
Rules
1. Don't fall in love
2. Use condoms
3. Don't rescue
4. See it as a hobby, not a lifestyle
5. Don't beat yourself up about your hobby. Just as you need physio from time to time, your balls need draining too