If the question is whether I'd go natural if both parties get std tested then my obvious answer is yes. Like it's a no brainer if both parties are tested.
The 2 WL’s that I quite frequently see asked me, if I can show them clear STD test result then they’re willing to go natural with me. (By “frequent” I mean 3-4 times a week, so thats frequent by my previous standard ).
Then i said I’d also want them to do the STD test and make sure all 3 are clean on the next session. Then wait for next month, go natural again just after the test. (They’re willing to do the test monthly rather than 3-monthly like the govt requires).
Sounds a lot of effort for 1 session a month, i know. But what do you think? Would you do it? Would you think that’s safe enough? Because despite being a “frequent” client, they’re still active WL’s and have their own partners too. Heck i dont usually even want to do BBBJ before this, hence the hesitation and wanted to check whats your opinions…
If the question is whether I'd go natural if both parties get std tested then my obvious answer is yes. Like it's a no brainer if both parties are tested.
How good is your pull-out game?
STD isn’t the only thing you should worry about… unexpected pregnancy with a WL?!?! Trapped for 18years
Being already in a relationship, my approach would be... Yeah, nah!
The testing shows up yon your medical records
The testing does not show up if you do it in one of the public STI clinics
I tell them I don’t have a Medicare card and am a tourist.
As for BB - only if I’m not having sex with a partner at home would I do that with a WL
Risky if you have a partner IMO.
My worry would be if they caught something after being tested, especially if they are active WL. Depending on the time you visit, a 7 hour shift could mean at least 4 🍆, being very conservative 😬
Didnt think about that, good point thanks. I hate pull-outs to be honest
I do know one of them is on birth control pillls. Hence why they dont need the sponge for their red days. So may be it’s all good for one of them.
Is that really the regulation here in Oz?? That a SW could “trap” the father of the baby? What if it’s condom breakage…