Well you cut it off, so its no longer an option either way.
That is all great, but at the end of the day it doesn't need to get to that point. You seem quite angry at it being a dick cheese making, stupid skin etc. Yet not retracting, is not how it is meant to go. I can imagine how awful your first time was because of this.. and the scarring is evidently deep. It is meant to retract, which brings us to the next somewhat important point.
You don't know what it feels like with a foreskin that works correctly because you have not experienced this
I could totally understand that with was bad and removed is superior, for your personal experience. Yet your personal experience is not how a foreskin is meant to work. You have also not experienced masturbation with a foreskin, evidenced by your "my experience was identical" reply. Never bothered retracting it.
The sad part is you perpetuate this idea that it is ok to cut, when there are options. In fact you try to legitimise it with your "i had both and circumcised is better". Just remember everyone who reads his circumshilling - his foreskin did not work correctly. Also the grand total of his "sex with foreskin" is once. It is absurd to say you last longer after being circumcised - you were circumcised after your first attempt. No attempt at fixing the problem beyond cutting. (
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread...=1#post2506289)
If you have issues you should see your doctor and push for non surgical methods. If they can't help find another doctor or research online for foreskin stretching. If Africans can stretch out their bottom lip and piercing aficionados can stretch their ears, you can stretch your foreskin.
Some other downsides : Further reduced sensitivity due to constant rubbing against your clothing. This will add up over a lifetime.
The downside is the fix will take time and effort on your part. Circumcision isn't/wasn't popular because phimosis is a vast problem. It is popular because of the wests judaeo christian heritage. Particularly US/Aus.
You could be a good parent and teach your sons how to look after their bodies then let them decide if they want to cut it off or not.