Originally Posted by
cumquat
here’s a scenario for those who know .
Just had an awakening And feeling like I’m in an AA kinda space as typing….
I met a couple months ago a very cute late 20’s WL . Initial Thougt was a clear transactional event . Contact /sex/chat=money … the second booking became Sex/chat/food/sex =money
Third meeting no direct money just paid indirect costs = meals , snacks , drinks , cigarettes , coffee machine , other play things .. and so it flows
Now having known her a couple months doesn’t appear to be working in a trad. sense and we’ve had discussions on intimacy, expectations, time together , interest and reciprocity.
So, I find myself two months later been able to see her any much time I like when I am, In the same city , though the last month been averaging 2!days a week
She refers to her place as my home . I am given a key , while I’m in city so can come go as needs. I haven’t paid her any direct cash for more than 5-6 weeks
What’s going on here ? Have I unwittingly reverse engineered an SB/SH tryst ?
Did I get lucky ? Or should I move this across to one of the other maudlin /vaudevillian threads …Honey, I’m dating a (insert title here)
The above is factual