How many times has this been posted, "Please help me I have fallen for my WL/ML, let it go, you can't argue with idiots, I know from experience.......Originally Posted by Fred Flintstone
Holy shit!
I understand why you did it, but I just dont approve of your way!
People here are worried about your welfare, but I dont think you face any imminent danger of losing a fortune. The WL is more vulnerable.
You are somewhat calculative...I pray you are a decent man and will not abuse her trust or PREY ON HER!!!
No BS here, just drop your “know everything” attitude.
If this is true which I doubt, I apologise, it sounded like a script out of an old Aussie movie, "Sheila", really??
It’s hard to imagine that blokes have been done over so badly financially by WLs. I mean how’d you end up in that place?!
It has to be a pattern before someone bleeds you dry. i.e. increasing demands for shot term loans, not paying money back, asking for fancy gifts and holidays. I’ve heard heaps of stories too. Like loaded overseas students spent a fortune, booking overnight stays, buying phones and luxury brands for young WLs. Aussie men in their 40s-50s falling for Asian WLs and even helping them with visas. Some stories come straight from the girls, while others are more like "I know a friend or a friend of a friend" sort of thing.
You've got to know who you're dealing with, especially when money's involved. If you met some Korean girl named Louisa, she borrowed a $1000 from you using whatever excuse she had and then vanished - it's on you. If you helped some Thai girl named June with her 820 visa, and one day she nicked money from your joint account and vanished, it's on you. That's why I'd never have this sort of thing with a girl from Korea, Thailand, or HK (nothing racial here).
Get your “due diligence” done before engaging the target.
Well I guess I had to skip some details for the sake of anonymity, so it sounds more or less like a story from some other punter posted here.
If you read what I wrote including replies, you shall see it’s a different case.
Add this one to the list of Aesop's (Punting) Fables
Just chill out. This is just the “due diligence”. I’m not a dickhead.
Don’t overthink the legit or privacy part, you know how things work back home.
You know my thoughts on the whole thread, but it's turned into the same scenario as other "please help me "threads, you are now giving advice to the people who are stupidly believing you, you are a fraud..............
This is good advice to any bloke who considering 'dating' a hooker.
Just calm down and don't hurt yourself!
I had a ML "girlfriend" for a while. I was lucky. Only lost $1,000 or so. Could have been worse. I know some guys have happy relationships?
Did she approach?
Hard to call them a girlfriend if you still think that spending money on them is a "loss". That's classic transaction mindset, meaning you still consider her a whore no matter what.
When guys believe they can change a prostitute, massage girl or stripper into a really good girlfriend then they're living in a fantasy world or just desperate and lonely. Many of these girls have personal, financial or mental health issues. Some carry baggage such as kids from previous relationships, secret boyfriends or other guys following them. Best to look outside for a genuine girlfriend or you will lose big time or be a wreck in the end.
My biggest fear would be they're ability n instincts to be a proper nuturing mothers. If you had kids n neither of you had the skills the whole shit cycle starts all over again. Kids being the innocent victims.
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