As mentioned previously foreplay is key and some cum quick and some take forever. With my regular she can be hard to get there and she knows so she needs a tonne of cuddling and kissing and then lots of DATY before I finger her to get her to come. Sometimes she will even cum in DATY and I feel like it's because we have built a connection over time. Another lady I saw for the first time recently came 3 times and she was super orgasmic. My point is that everyone is different and different techniques work for different people. Ask her what she likes and she can guide you.

We certainly are built different. Men naturally cum much quicker unfortunately 😜 but just because you came doesn't mean you can't help finish her off 😊