Originally Posted by
gco0307
I am a strong RnT merchant with very rare FS visits.
For me, it is relaxation. I go to an RnT with no pre-conceptions of FS or BJ etc but rather to try to get a good, soothing and relaxing massage, although I do prefer if the lady is cute or quite attractive but even then, give me a nice bright eyed smile and I am happy as looks are not everything (hell, I am no adonis). I do prefer a naked massage and find that many places will offer or discuss this up front and can say that I have had naked massages that involved no other sexual activity, just a massage and occasional body slide although I admit control is difficult at times.
I find the atmosphere of a massage to be more to my liking. There is the unknown at times of what will happen and when as some ladies will discuss at teh start and yet others will read your reactions and touch body parts to tingle teh sense, and others just outright explore what they get away with, and then will openly chat of options. The thrill of not knowing what will occur is something I find extremely erotic and exciting, which adds to the relaxation effects I experience at RnT's.
Absolutely at times the massage is great irrespective of what then happens and I have visited places where i can get an RnT purely for a massage, even on a couple of occasions with a girl that we have done more another time. Funny how when I have done that the erotic feeling and relaxtions has been off the scales ............... that self control again.
For FS to me it is more robotic. You pay for a service and the lady will give it and often in my experience it is impersonal and can feel to be distant, going through the motion type of actions which are not indicucing relaxtion in me.
Each their own but for me, the whole aspect of RnT tickles the senses (while hopefuly the lady may tickle elsewhere)