I had an ex ml gf. It's was pretty normal but it didn't work as she was part owner of the shop and her boss friend was up to no good. She never did FS in shop. Just going to movies and eat food.
One ml told me she was going out with a few customers.
Not for anything naughty, but just for dinner/food and a chat.
Made me wonder, how many of you guys would be up for meeting a wl/ml outside the shop to share a meal and conversation?
Of course im skeptical that theres no hanky panky going on on the side or that the punters dont want or arent trying to get something sexual from it.
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I had an ex ml gf. It's was pretty normal but it didn't work as she was part owner of the shop and her boss friend was up to no good. She never did FS in shop. Just going to movies and eat food.
Exgf ml, normal like a normal gf?
Fs outside shop with you and going out to eat food and watch movies?
And typically men pay for everything during the date?
How'd you fare with the relationship?
Main things that come to mind:
-do you worry about her seeing customers outside the shop
-did she see customers outside the shop, what did they do
-how did you find out
-since she was your gf, you werent paying for sex as like extras in the shop?
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I’ve taken out a WG/ML a few times. Sometimes after a private session at my hotel or after the shop closed. It was actually thrilling to be able to go out with the girl especially the pretty ones knowing how popular she was with the customers but she somehow chose me to spend some time with outside of work. I knew that in reality I didn’t really stand a chance and probably not someone I’m looking for seriously anyway. It was a good feeling though to be able to enjoy the private experience, much more intimate.
The answer is no & I get asked all the time to go out by the girls I punt. I don't want things turning into a date relationship before you know it you get hooked and have to see the girl all the time. Whats next she starts visiting you at your home? I just wanna see mine for boom boom some lite chat is ok. But going out in public no no it breaks the boundaries and punting rules.
I’ve done it a couple of times, I get the feeling they are just lonely, or a little homesick. Due to their work hours I think it makes it hard to organically make friends, especially if they are new to the country.
The few times I did spend time with them it didn’t involve anything sexual, just dinner and conversation, or even just a coffee and a walk around a park.
I have been socialising casually with an ML for a number of years. Lunches, dinners - eaten out or at her place; day trips in her car or by transport. I've helped her with some of her scatterbrain "business ventures" which she never seems to progress.
Some of our meets end in "service provision" for which I pay her. We have no real romantic connection, which suits both of us fine.
Although I have been privy to much of her personal life, she knows very little about me; not even my real name or where exactly I live. Our only contact is through WeChat.
She is moving up to Queensland soon so we will cut off contact.
We are all human and need companionship, but the question you got to ask yourself before dating a sex worker, can you deal with her going to work everyday sucking, fucking and jerking off 10 different blokes in a day, 6 days a week, than being with you,
Can you financially support her full time for her to give up her job, pay her food, rent, phone, school, send money home for her parents who are looking after her baby,
If you think I am jumping to conclusions, ask yourself this, why do the girls always ask what do you do for work, the answer is so she doesn’t need to do this job anymore and have a sugar daddy to look after all her needs,
that’s why I laugh when the manager of Lalabells Jenny said in front of the girls, a rich man because I drive a Mercedes, I knew she was telling them I could be a potential sugar daddy , and they should give better service, which I have to agree worked out better for me, but I like to keep my personal life private, and only go for fun when I need it,
You got to have rules in place or you might as well be the ML partner or sugar daddy. When shes seeing and banging 30+ other guys a day are you okay with that? If you think the ML is interested in just you, think again she probably sees cash earning potential. Its to easy to become attached to them to if you see them for public dating outings. No no do not see them out of the shop keep sex with them separate from your daily life. I have one Asian gal who I keep as a mistress but that'a a different thing altogether. Even then I don't go on dates with my mistress. We meet for sex quit chat then that's it.
I have gone out with ML a few times and everytime has ended in disaster!
And everytime has nearly given me a mental health condition hahaha!
I just could not get my head around the thought of her sucking and fucking customers all day long even though they would tell me it's just work.
Sure it's work but you cannot tell me they do not like the occasional good fucking!!
Im trying to just follow the 3 Fs now.
Find them
Fuck them
Forget them!!
No headaches no worries and variety is the spice of life 😁
From reading other threads on this topic, don't even bother going out with one.
Ejaculate and evacuate.
don't go out with them and don't fall in love with them. Dudes don't let your cock do the thinking here. You need to bang them and forget them. Or see em again is ok in the shop but don't date them. These gals are smart they can walk all over you, they end up with all your money and you end up broke as fuck.