So I was just at a fairly reputable massage place and got an okay massage for an hour which ended in a hand job.
To my surprise the masseuse afterwards turned around and said that the hand job was $50 extra. She never said this before doing the hand job and I had not said anything regarding extras at all. She did however offer a blow job for $100 while doing the hand job (which I did not take her up on).
I have a few points here.
1. I would expect that due to the nature of these massage shops that most people would assume that at the very least a hand job would be included in the price and is not really an extra.
2. That $50 is an exorbitant price for a hand job.
3. You can't perform an "extra" service without giving a choice and then declaring afterwards that it costs money. If I was told that it would be $50 for just a hand job, I would have declined.
So you took on a service that usually costs extra money, but now am pissed that you have to pay for it? Sorry mate, it's punting 101 to agree on a price before any extra services.
surprised she didn't ask for the money first
If you can’t afford $50 then stay at home and rub one out.
Ask yourself would you jerk off a guy for $50?
no sympathy for you from my side.
That’s povo if you can’t even dish out $50
And was she nude for the HJ? To break it right down, the basic hourly rate would be $55 to $80. A Nude HJ would be an additional $50, sometimes a bit more, or a bit less if she keeps her clothes on. 25-30 years ago, an HJ was included in the room price but those days are long gone in most shops.
Recently in an Epping shop one WL wanted $80 from me for touching her.
After handing over the money every time I lay my hand on her she wriggled and said Ticklish!
She had her undie on. For half an hour she just turned her backside to me and I just stared at it.
I think $50 for a HJ is not expensive at all.
And I should have bought a good book to read. Punting with a new WL has starting to be fucking rediculous. Non-existent service with a high price. Only WLs could get away with fools like us. It is starting to smell like shit.
I think this ticklish trick was used by another Artarmon WL I've met.
The OP might be new to this game so he may not know the drill, also considering this is his very first post and he is a newbie to the forum.
What you pay is only for the massage. The girl should have presented the menu at the end of the massage and that was when you could decide on what you wanna do. I think OP is complaining why he was not asked whether he would prefer to have a hj at the end, which I think is quite fair. Imagine what If she would have demanded 200 for the HJ realising this guy is new to the game.
The ML shouldn't have considered that for granted. On another note you should have thought for yourself , you are paying 60-70 dollars for an hour massage and clearly can't expect the HJ (hopefully it was nude, otherwise you were ripped off) to be included in what you paid to the shop.
I guess you don’t understand the rules of engagement- regardless of anything else - I would expect nothing less than the $50.
I always pay $150 what does it get? with one lady it’s a CBJ, NHJ, body slide, pussy slide, daty, superb edging, GFE and with another in the same shot all of the above plus FS every position CIM, FIA, FIV and GFE. I PAY UPFRONT. I have pretty well done this from day one regardless of the shop. Wishful thinking to think life with sn ML is FOC (free of charge), meter starts ticking soon as you enter the shop / just like a taxi - flagfall plus kilometres. Life is about paying remember you pay in life by three things taxes, death and fucking.
ML wanted $80 for nude HJ. I was laughing.
The OP said a reputable shop but didn't mention if it's a prepay shop like 227 Broadway or 200 Stanmore where the HJ is indeed included in the fee?
That's exactly what I was getting at, Carmen farquis and Bobbi Brown. Without knowing which shop he's talking about, how much he paid upfront, how would we know whether he was being ripped off or not?
So which one is it OP?
If it's a prepaid shop like SBM, then yes there is a (small) issue here. Ask the ML to speak to the manager and sort out from there. If it's NOT a prepaid shop then see below covering your points:
1. Even though it's a "shop of that nature" the MLs are only obliged to give you a massage. They aren't legally bound to do anything else for you. Now it IS odd that they went ahead and jerked you off without telling you it's extra, I've never had that experience tbh UNLESS I've paid up front so it's bleeding obvious. They always ask if I want something extra whether its here or when I went overseas for a bucks stint.
2. 50 is standard for a NHJ. If the N part of that wasn't on play well, okay request it next time. If the girl is a regular and likes you a lot you could get away with stuff on top for this amount, but it's the standard, which leads straight into 3rd point....
3. $50 is the standard base tip for any sexual activity to occur at a massage place "of that nature" and while I haven't been at it for as long as some, 50 has been standard for quite some time I think. As others have said, if that's not within your budget, yet your paying probably about that much per month for internet access I presume, www.pornhub.com and some tissues should suit your budget.
Hope this helps your next endeavour.
This is why theres a lot of talk of "pineapples" on the forum. Why pineapples? Yellow of course correlating to the Oz 50.
Because you didn’t ask price before the deed she took the advantage of playing you and requesting more money. She must of thought a good opportunity with a amateur to make some extra cash
50 is fair price buddy with nude . haha girl wear nothing in front of you buddy........ that price should be ok la
I can remember when the "base fee" used to be $20 for a straight HJ; many girls were'nt prepared to go nude, or even take the top off or allow a bit of touching. The $50 offer came in gradually as girls got less inhibited and went fully or partially nude. It is now pretty much standard, although some girls started asking $60.3. $50 is the standard base tip for any sexual activity to occur at a massage place "of that nature" and while I haven't been at it for as long as some, 50 has been standard for quite some time I think. As others have said, if that's not within your budget, yet your paying probably about that much per month for internet access I presume, www.pornhub.com and some tissues should suit your budget.
I decided to try a new shop recently and was unsure if extras were offered as it looked legit. But if it was on offer I was ready to pay the $50 for NHJ
I turned over with a hard on that I had no way of hiding. I apologised. She offered with the back and forth hand motion “you want?”.
After ending a decent punt, she charged me $20 for the HJ with clothes on. And since I’ve been back, when I see the same lady I say 45 mins + $20 please and she gets the idea