Getting called out for lasting too long

[abovetherim]

I have a bit of a climax problem myself and I feel that I do no favours with a WL/ML by lasting too long. But my issue is usually from HJ where I don’t always get the right stroke, pressure or tempo from the lady to finish. It does cause many frustrations with the ladies and I don’t feel great about it. FS is usually better for me but I don’t tend to go for those much these days. Can’t imagine the WL going thru the pounding from some bros here everyday and what that would do to their senses in/around their pussy.

[tpol]

I have a bit of a climax problem myself and I feel that I do no favours with a WL/ML by lasting too long. But my issue is usually from HJ where I don’t always get the right stroke, pressure or tempo from the lady to finish. It does cause many frustrations with the ladies and I don’t feel great about it. FS is usually better for me but I don’t tend to go for those much these days. Can’t imagine the WL going thru the pounding from some bros here everyday and what that would do to their senses in/around their pussy.

The vagina has very little nerve endings. Orgasm comes from the clitoris so you're actually stroking the clit from the vagina to get her off.

Bit like guys getting off from prostate massage. You're stroking the prostate from the anal passage

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You don't have to pound her, just stroke the clit from the inside

[tpol]

It might be because if they have orgasm they will feel tired and lazy after that. No matter how desensitised the wl or ml. If get stimulated non stop like 30 50 mins they will cum, eether they like it or not.

True that............

[Ghost2hauntU]

I once attempted a 70kg clean snatch with a lovely Samoan but failed to pull off the lift for a standing mish. In hindsight I should've gone for the clean and jerk so these days I focus on the Chinese 40-50 kg weight division.

I’ll take you on for the title in this weight category.. my strength is the ‘standing 69’ hehe..

[alexgab]

I feel like, i might have an issue with cumming too quick, if i take substances would that have a side effect, i do have a partner and sometimes i feel embarrassed for not lasting long enough. Any suggestions from your experience?

[GoldfishMan]

I feel like, i might have an issue with cumming too quick, if i take substances would that have a side effect, i do have a partner and sometimes i feel embarrassed for not lasting long enough. Any suggestions from your experience?

If you want to try meds, start with the least impactful ones and work your way up. ED meds like Viagra and Cialis (and their generic counterparts) can help to some extent, by making the "muscle" that is used to control cumming "stronger". On the other hand, it also makes your erection stronger and harder, which would make your partner's pussy feel tighter. So it could backfire on you depending on the situation. If nothing else, it would be helpful in satisfying your partner. Plus, the impact in terms of side effects is very minimal, maybe a headache or stuffy nose that's about it.

If ED meds don't help you last longer, you can try the PE meds. Those really fuck with your brain. You could easily OD on it if you're not careful, and end up not being able to cum at all.

I tried only a 1/4 dose of it just to see what it was about. FMD I couldn't cum even when I put 100% concentration into wanting to cum. And the girl I was with was actually a top notch hottie, too. It was like I'd lost control of my dick, really freaked me out. Never tried it again.

[alexgab]

Thanks mate, where would i get those meds, i am 30 yrs old and if there is minimal side effect, i can give it a go.
It was not always like that, lifestyle, being active has all changed in the last few years and mentally i am stressed. That is what i think the reason, otherwise i use to last between 10-15 minutes which was good enought to satisfy any girls after foreplay.

[GoldfishMan]

Thanks mate, where would i get those meds, i am 30 yrs old and if there is minimal side effect, i can give it a go.
It was not always like that, lifestyle, being active has all changed in the last few years and mentally i am stressed. That is what i think the reason, otherwise i use to last between 10-15 minutes which was good enought to satisfy any girls after foreplay.

At 30 yo, it's going to be hard for you to get a script from a GP. Your best bet is to get generics from online shops. Google "buy generic Viagra" you'll get lots of hits.

Or you can try this shop:
https://www.kamagraoioioi.com/
Very good reputation, but they only sell generic V in gel form, which can be very difficult to control the dosage. I think you should ideally get the tablet form, so you can just cut them in halves or even quarters, because you're only 30 yo.

[rooter]

Once a girl complained I was taking too long to get undressed. WTF?

Lol..............

Oh and another time a girl complained I was taking too long to open the mouthwash bottle!
WTF! Those childproof caps are really difficult to open especially in a dark room.

[l337dude]

Well they should be thankful you are taking too long to get undressed, you are helping them waste time

[tpol]

I feel like, i might have an issue with cumming too quick, if i take substances would that have a side effect, i do have a partner and sometimes i feel embarrassed for not lasting long enough. Any suggestions from your experience?

Mate learn to relax... Your anxiety makes it worse. Concentrate on pleasing her so you forget about yourself.

The other thing is find out the position that isn't so sensitive to you but Good for her.. Do mish and try and on mosh you can control.

I can come fast if it's cowgirl and she moves the right way so when i think she's had enough, i goto that and then i can come

I find staying deep inside her i last longer

[rooter]

Once a girl complained I was taking too long to get undressed. WTF?

Well they should be thankful you are taking too long to get undressed, you are helping them waste time

Exactly! That's what I thought too! That's why I said WTF!

[Single Malt]

I feel like, i might have an issue with cumming too quick, if i take substances would that have a side effect, i do have a partner and sometimes i feel embarrassed for not lasting long enough. Any suggestions from your experience?

Have you simply tried rubbing one out before a punt?

I used to do this when I was younger and feeling extra toey to avoid wasting 1hour sessions and always worked a charm.

I found it more consistent then the meds which were pretty hit and miss

[1inchguy]

So i visit a lot of 150/hr shops with seasoned WLs. These arent your fresh off the plane untrained japanese girls or KPS girls.

So usually i go for the one hour session. Routine is i let then bj me for about 5min, then start fucking. By the 20th minute, they are asking me if i came yet?
Is this just me or does this happen to everyone else? Im quite baffled since: where else am i going to do for the rest of the 40min?

Every single girl tells me i last the longest out of all the customers (usually come around 50-55th min with enough time for shower).

Ive even had mamasans demand me to give extra 40/hr (while every other punter pays normal rare) because i last too long.

Should i mix it up instead of banging away? Or do you guys do differently?

Marathon Man.
Are these girls super hot?

Im usually the quickest guy here to come, even if im tired if the girl is super hot i come much quicker..
however there was this Viet girl i saw at St Marys. Her bbbj was so boring, there was no technique to it. Just her bobbing her head down. Apparently she's new to the industry but she couldnt get me to finish. She tried HJ and more sucking. I remain hard but i couldnt get myself to come.
Eventually i had give myself hand then pass my cock over for her to HJ finished. She said i have get mental stamina and impressed i lasted long. In my head im thinking (nope she wasnt good)
However i was still surprised cause i came to much quicker to ugly grannies with black teeth in the past...

[julie001177]

Hey bud, same. I also only visit the 24/7 lower end WL shops where I see Chinese MILFs for 1 hr.
I do this because I’m not much into being serviced and prefer to fuck long and hard. Plus I like paying the least possible. I always take it to the last minute and at times up to 15 min overtime with a regular.

I’ve had WLs say stuff to me like “you cum now” at half time when I’m just changing a position. Or she may say “you fucka fucka long time, cum now another customer waiting” when we’re at 45 min etc etc.
But they are usually cool with it, I haven’t had one that’s upset at me yet.

It’s usually the older ones (50 and above) that do it. They’ll also try tricks like fake moaning etc but I rarely fall for that these days.

Anyway, the way J look at is if I pay for 1 hr, I want 1 hr of fucking. And that’s what I always aim for.

Lastly, I will tip a pineapple or even two if it’s a regular.

About escort services, what kind of girls do you like?

[kpopcity]

Marathon Man.
Are these girls super hot?

Im usually the quickest guy here to come, even if im tired if the girl is super hot i come much quicker..
however there was this Viet girl i saw at St Marys. Her bbbj was so boring, there was no technique to it. Just her bobbing her head down. Apparently she's new to the industry but she couldnt get me to finish. She tried HJ and more sucking. I remain hard but i couldnt get myself to come.
Eventually i had give myself hand then pass my cock over for her to HJ finished. She said i have get mental stamina and impressed i lasted long. In my head im thinking (nope she wasnt good)
However i was still surprised cause i came to much quicker to ugly grannies with black teeth in the past...

No they arent that hot for me. Not ugly but not hot. Maybe ill give the really hot ones a go but i still doubt it.

Is this Viet girl at Saigon Princess in St marys? I usually go punt around that area too and looking for some recommendations

[Vincent888]

If you want to fuck long time like that you need arouse the girl a lot otherwise they will be hurt after they dry. Keep playing with their body, kiss grope touch etc etc. So they keep wet longer.

They usually starts asking that when their vagina become dry. Either the lube start drying up or their vagina stop produce lube because not enough arousal.

I think post number 2 is the best advice.

Just for your record normal intercourse pooled by study back in 2000ish

Vaginal sex typically lasts three to seven minutes, according to a 2005 Society for Sex Therapy and Research member survey.

According to the survey, vaginal sex that lasts one to two minutes is “too short.” Vaginal sex that lasts 10 to 30 minutes is considered “too long.”

So how long should vaginal sex actually last? The sex therapists surveyed say that anywhere from 7 to 13 minutes is “desirable.”

It’s important to note that these figures only apply to penile-vaginal intercourse. They don’t account for things like foreplay, and they aren’t representative of other types of sex.

Who did they survey? A dried up old boiler?

[Shoryureppa]

I've had a regular get mad at me for not cumming within an hour. The lengths she went to in order to try & get me to come was insane though...

[dvu420]

Yep. At bellevue 12. I couldn't cum even after 30 mins of straight fucking. The WL just got up at left.

[LiftD]

I think from the girls perspective, they are getting pumped multiple times a day. Extended pounding may be good for your partner etc but maybe not for WL.